i allowed one of my best friends take my boyfriend as the date to her senior prom. i told her that i was okay with it, and i sorta was. i mean how are you supposed to feel when your bf is out with another girl. i thought that i could trust her. i though. turns out that i was wrong. apparently she likes him and he told me that she was all up on him at the prom. i just can't believe that she would do this to me. i was kinda afrid that he would not tell me(i found out form my best friend in the world that this hapened) but he did. one of her friends told him that he should kiss her and when he said no that he had a gf, her friend said well forget that f******* b*** tonite. he said that this made him mad. i don't really want a guy to cause rouble, but he is not doing it. it's her. it's like she can't live her own life.every time one of her friends finds a guy she likes them too. the thing is she lied to me about it. i am afrid that if i talk to her right now, i am going to say something that i will frgret later.i ignored her today for that reason, but i can't do that forever. what am i supposed to do? i just need some help. she just can't be happy that somebody eles life is going good right now. she has to something to cause drama.:angry:

Post edited by: sonworshipper, at: 2008/04/21 19:49

I've been there sis. (except the other way around... my *ex*bf was all up on my best friend. She almost decked him lol :P ) But hey, he's faithful to you, right? There has to be some good that came out of it from that. You're getting to see who's more loyal to you. And since it's him, you can trust him more and more. It'll help you weed out your friend field later on in life. Let the drama slide, everything will pass and wounded relationships will move on. Keep on loving and keep on living. Wow i sound like a horoscope. That means it's time for me to stop talking.

like lil-rush said pray for her. I am so sorry about that, i would be really hurt too:( . Well i will be praying that you have wisdaom in this hard time.

okay after thinking this over for a while, i have decided that i simply don't care anymore. it's not that i don't care about my bf, i just don't care what happened. it's in the past, i can't change it, i still have him, i am going to forgive her and simply move on. needless to say that i and her need to still talk this over and get it straight in order for this to work.

good for you;)