that i wasnt going to date at all this year because at this age [16-17] is just pointless to date. we arent mature enough. and i had jsut had my heart broken a couple of months ago and just couldnt handle another one. and i have alot of school and homework from advanced classes. and i told myself that even if i started to like a guy, no matter how much, i was going to wait. and i thought that if the guy really liked me to he would be willing to wait with me. but now i like 2 really nice and really funny christian guys. and one of them keeps telling me to forget my rule. but i dont want to. but in the back of my mind i do. and the other guy that i like more doesnt know i like him, but i kinda think he likes me too... but i dont wanna say anything. what should i do? should i forget my rule? after only a month... or should i stick with it?

You obviously have that rule for a reason, stick to it. You made a generalisation, MOST 16-17 year olds aren't mature enough to date but some are. I think concerntrating on your school work is a good idea. Want to know what I think? The first guy isn't worth going after yet (even though I think guys should go after you). It seems like he is only thinking about himself at the moments and doesn't have your interests at heart. Pray about both guys, God already knows how you feel about them anyways.

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Welcome, hope it helped

Um. Wow. Yeah. Stick with the rule. It's a really good one and one that I think most girls should follow. So just pray. Haha sorry those are like REALLY short sentences =] -courtney :silly:

[b]kell^-^ wrote:[/b] [quote]that i wasnt going to date at all this year because at this age [16-17] is just pointless to date. we arent mature enough. and i had jsut had my heart broken a couple of months ago and just couldnt handle another one. and i have alot of school and homework from advanced classes. and i told myself that even if i started to like a guy, no matter how much, i was going to wait. and i thought that if the guy really liked me to he would be willing to wait with me. but now i like 2 really nice and really funny christian guys. and one of them keeps telling me to forget my rule. but i dont want to. but in the back of my mind i do. and the other guy that i like more doesnt know i like him, but i kinda think he likes me too... but i dont wanna say anything. what should i do? should i forget my rule? after only a month... or should i stick with it?[/quote] i agree i'm not going to date till i'm 18 cause i'll heve graduated highschool and i'll be old enough to get married it's just pointless to date at this age

plz dont break ur promise...wen u made da decision @ da begining of da year theres a reason u did, and if that guy isnt willing 2 wait who nos may b sooner or later he wont wanna wait and wanna hav sex or sumtin and will wanna get married young, so tell him 2 wait or to just get over liking u