[size=4]hey girls long time since i've been on here, i never ever thought i'd have a problem like this, but if you guys could help that would be awesome! like many stories it starts with {this guy} who i went to camp with last year and ever since then we've gottin to know each other really well, now we're like best friends, but its fastly becomeing more then that, in other words i went with him and some other friends to a concert the other night were he told me three times that he loved me. we never got the chance to be alone and talk even though we tried. the thing is, i really do like him. its just my dad. grrrr My dad dosen't know him,he's only seen him two times in the past year and a half that i've been friends with this guy, its almost as if he's{my dad is} mad at me because my he didn't pick out the perfact guy. my dad grounded me from talking to this guy for two weeks because this guy, me and two ther friends went on a ten minute walk with out him knowing. I mean comon! i'm sixteen! how do i get my dad to back off me a little bit! he's driving me crazy! he dosen't want me talking to any guys, or being around any guys. or even going to the same bible study as this guy, which is hard because i have a lot of guy friends, this guy and i share alot of friends who are guys. i haven't even told my dad i like him and that he likes me. i'm to scared to talk to my dad because he's so strict that i lie. and then he hates me for it! when/if he finds out! what do i do! i just want out of this mess, i want my dad to chill out, and so my dad and i can have a relationship. and then hopefully so can this guy and me![/size]:dry:

ok im not all great about giving advice but this is what i would do: just talk to your dad, but at the very begining of the conversation, say,"Dad, I just want you to listen to me until I finish talking ok? And wait until the end of what I'm saying before you say something." thats all I would do.. and then after you and your dad have a talk then let the guy you like and your dad to have a talk to get to know each other better. I hope this helped, because it wasn't great advice. :)

well im not good at advice either...but i do have to say i have tryed the dont say anything till im done thing before(make that many times)...and it normally works...hope everything works out