A lot of you on here are probably older than me, so I decided to get a little help. See, I had a boyfriend. And I really liked him at first, then I dumped him a week after we started dating because I got tired of him. This seems to be happening a lot lately with the boyfriends I get. Well, the day I took him to my church (which happened to be the day before I dumped him), I saw this guy there. I'd seen him before, but my initial thoughts of him were that he was ugly. Well, oddly enough, I really like him now. And I can't tell if he likes me. During praise and worship, I stand near him and he looks at me a lot. (When he's not crying out to God.) But the other night I saw him talking to the 'head girl' at church. Yeah, my pastor's granddaughter. And I was pretty much crying when I told my dad, and when I told my mom later that night. I just really need some encouragement. And maybe a few ideas would help. Please? :(

Okay... I am not the best at giving advice.. but, Before you get a boyfriend, Make sure you really like him and get to know him. So you don't have to dump him so early. About the boy you like, well because he is " talking " to her doesn't mean alot. He could still like you. Give it some time and get to know him better first though. :)

Yeah, I guess that could help. :) Cause when I started going out with Shep, I didn't know that his first name is actually Andrew. So I was a little confused for awhile. I always know when I want to dump a guy when I don't want to hold his hand anymore. Poor guy, he didn't even know...But now I look at Alec, and I get butterflies in my stomach. I wish I could talk to him, but we don't know anything about each other. :(