I have been abandoned by many men in my life. My dad was never there. The next guy in my life(kind of a step-dad) left. I kind of think of God as a father figure so I always think He's going to abandon me.[size=4]Help!!!!!![/size]:(

god doesnt comes close to those men on earth he is perfect and the same today and forever and he is a gentlemen he will wait on your doorstep until you let him in he is not lust nor doubt hes love and assurance

[b]PurpleJ wrote:[/b] [quote]I have been abandoned by many men in my life. My dad was never there. The next guy in my life(kind of a step-dad) left. I kind of think of God as a father figure so I always think He's going to abandon me.[size=4]Help!!!!!![/size]:([/quote] "Whoever lives under the shelter of the Most High will remain in the shadow of the Almighty." Psalm 91:1 "Be strong and courageous! Don't tremble or be terrified, because the LORD your God is with you wherever you go." Joshua 1:9 God will never leave you! Those men were wrong to abandon you, but as long as you forgive them, you will feel better in time! Remember, we are all here for you if you need us! Post edited by: horsechic1990, at: 2006/10/21 22:57

Post edited by: horsechic1990, at: 2006/10/21 22:58

this isn't much but, *Here is my experience of last night for instance ;) I was suicidal the last 6 months BUT my fear of going to Hell kept me on earth and also i had a really good friend to go to. Well God spoke to me as i was walking through the house thinking no one cares. *Here is what He said: "That's not true child. I'm always there for you, I'll never leave you. I'll comfort you when needed." *See? God made that promise to me, and He's made that promise to every Christian. Just hang on to Him! If ya need to talk sometime you can e-mail me! heaven_bound_angel@hotmail.com I'll pray for ya. :)

God will necver adandon you. Read the bible twice as much as you do and pray to god every morning and night. whenever you need to!:)

hey dont feel bad i have had lots of ppl leave me and sometimes i feel like god will do the same. but even though it may seem like that god will NEVER leave us.you just have to belive {even though its really really really hard;) } luv lots ~FadedWings~;) :) :cheer:

As the other girls have said...God will NEVER leave you. Several weeks ago, in Intervarsity at my college. The speaker was talking about being a child of God and how many Christians believe that God will love us when he wants to but send us away when He doesn't want to be bothered. God will NEVER send you away...he Loves you too much! The speaker then went on to give a real life example of the kind of love God gives us (the story of Rick and Dick Hoyt) You can find their story on the internet (SI wrote an article about them a while back). Try reading Isaiah 43:1-13. Whenever I start to feel the way you do, I read that verse and it helps.

God is always going to be with you. He's not like the other men on earth. Some guys will leave you, but God will always be with you. You just have to keep believing that and having faith. Know that you are not alone because God is always there.

I understand this all too well. I too have dealt with the same thing. I had to make a decision to change my way of thinking. I hope this can help you... I know that we are human and being human we will get disappointed or even be a disappointment to someone as long as we are living - I cannot put total trust in people but I have decided to put ALL my trust in God - no matter what happens - I will pray ROMANS 8:28 over my life - ALL THINGS work to gether for good - ( not all GOOD things) ALL things. God knows the future for each of us and Jeremiah 29:11 tells us HE has a plan for us - even if it is not the way WE want it. I encourage you to meditate on scriptures that tell you of God's grace, mercy, comfort, faithfulness. This will REALLY help. He gave us the bible to help us and there is alot in the bible we can learn. Satan would love you to keep a wall up against God, I encourage you to stand strong and search the scriptures. May God Bless You! I will be praying for you!

ok well first of all, you should know that any men in your life that have hurt you - THEY are human. God is not!!!! God created you and desires nothing more than to father you perfectly. The book "To Own a Dragon" by Donald Miller is an amazing book that talks about this exact topic. It was originally written for [i]guys[/i] without a dad but both my sister and i read it and it's got so much good stuff in there that applies to anyone who deals with that kind of issue. I highly reccommend it to someone in your situation.