so lately iv been having these weird urges to do bad things with my boyfriend, but i kno i shouldnt because its not what God wants. but i dont know whats wrong with me. its like iv changed into something i wasnt ready for...its weird.... any advice for me? thanks ~brittany :(

It's alright gurl,it's just ur hormones that's normal in a teenager!!!! LOL!!!! Believe me I know!!!! :P

like everyone else is saying, its hormones. when you get close to someone, and are attracted to them physically as well as mentally, your hormones start to rage, and u get these feelings. (speaking from experience) talk 2 him about ur boundaries. that's one thing me and my boyfriend did early on, and we both areed we wanted to wait for marriage before we have sex. that has helped us a lot to avoid situations that we may get feelings like that. that's my suggestion; both of u talk about ur boundaries and agree on your limits for the relationship.

Dang... Guess I'm not needed here, it's all already been covered.

thank you everybody. it figures the day i go to talk to him about it, he's not at school. hmm go figure!

Yeah, everyone has said almost everything I can think of, but I know one good idea is to first decide your boundaries and promise God you won't pass them. Don't just say "We won't have sex." Make it specific (ie we won't make out, I won't and he won't put anything inside my body) you get the picture. Then get some type of symbol that reminds you of your promise to God. Some people like True Love Waits rings, because when you start to do things that cross your boundaries, you'll have to look at the ring and remember what you promised God. I admire your desire to stay pure. You're not alone.

as always i agree with the things everyone has said... i was in this situation not solong ago n in the end i had to break it off with the guy but one thing that helped us not do stuff was my mums rule, we were never to be in a room with the door closed. just something else to think about ;) i'll be praying for you chica, good luck

[b]keyseya wrote:[/b] [quote]as always i agree with the things everyone has said... i was in this situation not solong ago n in the end i had to break it off with the guy but one thing that helped us not do stuff was my mums rule, we were never to be in a room with the door closed. just something else to think about ;) i'll be praying for you chica, good luck[/quote] thank you. yea thats our moms rules too.

[b]DragonRider1 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]keyseya wrote:[/b] [quote]as always i agree with the things everyone has said... i was in this situation not solong ago n in the end i had to break it off with the guy but one thing that helped us not do stuff was my mums rule, we were never to be in a room with the door closed. just something else to think about ;) i'll be praying for you chica, good luck[/quote] thank you. yea thats our moms rules too.[/quote] your mum is a wise lady then! my friends my said that her and her bf werent allowed to kiss for more than 5 seconds, i thought that that wasnt long but i changed my mind when i got my first bf. something else to think about? maybe

your mum is a wise lady then! my friends my said that her and her bf werent allowed to kiss for more than 5 seconds, i thought that that wasnt long but i changed my mind when i got my first bf. something else to think about? maybe[/quote] yea i love my mommy and his mom for that matter....:laugh: i dont kiss longer than like 2 seconds. i think "making out" is overrated and disgusting! and my bf knows it so he doesnt try to. ohh last night we had a dance at our school and before that he took me out to dinner. he paid for everything. no guy has done that for me..other than my daddy of course.:P i feel special with him