my best friend is a guy and i really really like him, hes a christian (he goes to my church) and i think he may like me too. should i ask him out or should wait for him to ask me?

I would not ask him out. It could mean disaster for your friendship with him if he ends up not liking you the way you like him. It could get very awkward for both of you.

[b]livin4Him17 wrote:[/b] [quote]I would not ask him out. It could mean disaster for your friendship with him if he ends up not liking you the way you like him. It could get very awkward for both of you.[/quote] I agree! Well said!

Thanks...never happened to me personally but I have seen it happen with some of my friends...and those that did pursue a relationship with their best guy friend ended up getting crushed worse than if it wasn't b/c not only did they lose their boyfriend they lost a really good friend too.

i am not so sure what i would do but i do know we all have a jelous god and he wants all of our heart, u no? so he died on the cross 4 us y cant we give him our full and everything? Focus On God!

Wait for him to figure it out! Just keep being his bestfriend that he can count on and work on strengthening your relationship that way! Good Luck!! :lol:

I don't know about waiting. I'm not saying you shouldn't wait ,but I have a friend who waited for her best friend to figure things out and they were always flirting with each other and stuff. I guess she waited too long though cuz now he has a gf and it's NOT her. She didn't take it very well especially because he didn't tell her for THREE weeks!! He actually never really told her at all! She found out through another friend! Anyways I'm not exactly sure what you should do. If you reallly like him I say go for it. If you wanna be friends then all I can say is don't get yourself yoo deep.:dry: Peace, Corinna.

you should ask him out! (haha, DZ, its sashes, i talked to him, HE DOES LIKE YOU!)

Just becareful, you know. Dont make any sudden moves, send out a friend to talk to him and make sure you are really really sure of his feelings before you make a move. And hey, ask your number one daddy too, you know, the big guy upstairs. He see's everything;)

[b] well i'm in the same boat... i agree though, definately. i wouldnt ask him out he turn on you and it could get awkward

Post edited by: unwritten1117, at: 2006/11/06 17:17