well um...i like this guy but he has a gf....and umm this guy that sits behind me in homeroom well he always flirts with me...and i kinda like him but only a little and i like the other guy alot should i wait the guy i know has a gf or take a quick chance and give the guy that sits behind me in homeroom a chance...HELPPPPPP

i feel u, becuase I going through the same problem 2 (sortof). There is a guy at my school who always flirts with me but he has a gf. If u already friends with the guy who has a gf, just be friends and if u get lucky, he might coma @ u!!!! Just let the friendship blossom and something might happen but don't ruin the friendship! Just follow the Spirit and whatever He says, go with it!!! I'll pray 4 u and let me how it's going!! GOD BLESS!!B)

Don't worry about it. You have plenty of time, and neither guy really sounds right for you right now. Focus on your relationship with God and keep making friends with the people around you (guys and girls) and enjoy those friendships. God will take care of the rest in His time. ;)

you shoud try to make the guy that has a g/f jealous. so go out with the guy that sits behind you. it always works!i have gone out with 20 boys that dumped there g/f for me cauz i was making him jealous!

Eh, sorry chicka, but I have to say it. How is having gone out with 20 guys a good thing, especially when the whole reason was jealousy that you intentionally created? That's a very big number, and to have them all not work out... Well, I think there is a better way of going about finding the person God has for you. I recommend focusing on God and your relationship with Him before looking for any other relationships deeper than friendship. Lose yourself in Him, and He'll bring the right guy to you in His time.

"You don't need scores of beaus, you only need one, if he is the right one." - Beth March, Little Women. Seriously, why do you even want a boyfriend right now? Is it because you are looking for a husband that you are prepared physically, mentally and spiritually to marry right now(as in tomorrow)? That is the point right of seeking the attention and affection of a guy, isn't it? When I was your age if I found that I liked a guy I moon over him all of the time hoping that he'd notice me, but then I realized I had a special time in which I could focus on just God and me, a time where the Lord could work in me the qualities to be the the woman He wanted me to be and if I stayed focused on Him, He'd bring me that man He'd been preparing for me in His perfect timing. In the mean time I'd note the QUALITIES I'd like in a guy and ask the Lord that if it is His will that I marry may he have so and so, then I'd pray that the Lord would bless that guy and his future spouse. It really help me keep my focus on God and prepare me for the day I did meet my husband and he asked me to go out.:cheer: :) ;) 1Cr 7:34 There is difference [also] between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please [her] husband.

Post edited by: ltswife05, at: 2007/03/11 21:45