Okay I have been dating this guy for almost four months now. I feel about him as i never have anyone else. Some of our friends say that they think we will date all the way through high school and get married. Even my mom said that. He just makes me alot happier than anyone ever has.Some people say that it's love, but i want someone's opinion who has bee there. One of my friends asked me how i felt about him and i have thought about it. I can't see myself this happy with anybody else. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I really do think I have fallen in love with him. and i prayed , like the week before we started dating for God to send me a good christian guy who would love me and support and help me in my christian walk. i prayed for someone that God wanted for me, someone that i could be close to, and talk to, some who would support decisions i made, but tell me if he thought they are mistakes.I really do feel like this guy is God sent, and I have prayed for God to do what he wants with this relationship.so what do ya'll think? do think that i have found love?i have finally found someone who is my best friend and the person who holds my heart.:)

As Logan says, love is a strong word...

As for this topic, I suggest the book in the bible called the Song of Songs or it may be in your bible as Song of Solomon. It talks about love and the relationship between a man and a woman and about respect for each other and what love feels like.

aww that sounds like your having a great time, and i would know i've totally been there, cept it was just short of 4 months, before i realized that the dude i thought made me happier then anyone else the person i couldn't imagine with another girl, wasn't who i thought, turns out he wasn't the steadfast God loving guy i was thinkin, sure he's a christian but he wasn't ready to fight for me yet, i'm not saying every guy is like that, the dude your talking about may be a winner, my ex boyfriend was. him and i jumped into things way to fast, its ok that you don't know you love him, DON't set your mind about loveing him, don't think of him as your own, if you do cliam him and say you "love" him and set your heart on him when the rosey vail falls away and you realize that neither of you are ready for a commitment like that, you'll be in alot for pain if you don't protect your heart, and setting your heart on love so soon in a relationship isn't healthy! i know i sound like your mom, haha but the truth is i didn't even ask my mom or sister about how soon to fall in "love" when they told me that stuff^^^ i wish i had listened! the worst part is i'm hurt because of how fast i fell but "he" my ex is hurt even more, because i had to break it off when i realized we couldn't live happily ever after! sorry for the spelling i just woke up! haha praying for you. becareful he likely doesn't belong to you. and it is too soon to call! so don't say you love him just yet, high school love just leads to regret 90% of the time, not saying that you two won't work out. just make sure God is his and your number one love! you know that your relationship isn't healthy when your spending more time this the guy then you do God. don't let your boyfriend be number one. and make sure you know who his number one is. be careful be careful be careful i can't say that anough. if you two do work out he's going to look back at your relationship and respect you for how slow took it, and if you two don't end up together you'll be able to look back at the time you spent with him without regret! thats how it should be! Gb

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