I have told u guys this story before, but i'll refresh ur memory. the guy i am dating is my best friend. we had been best friends for a long time before we started dating. i know this may soumd cliche, but he really is the answer to my prayers, literally. and i know u guys say that i am to young to know what love is, but i do love him. i have prayed about it, and God has allowed us to stay together. we have been together for six months. i really don't want to be with anyone else in the world. if something happened between us, it would break me. there inlies the problem. every time something is bothering him, he gets really quiet and just withdraws from everyone, including me. and it is really hard to just let him be and get over it, it's starting to get to me. i haven't done anything, yet i feel like some thing is bothering him.he will probably ne okay in a few days, so do i just need to leave him alone?

Wow... that sounds like me n Logan... cept its me who gets withdrawn and quiet... Sometimes all you can do is let the person know that you are there for them if its to listen or talk or whatever. Moral support can do alot. If you try and feel like you're not getting anywhere keep trying, you may be doing wonders. If you show him that you are there for him then maybe he will start opening up more. He may be keeping quiet because he doesn't want to hurt you. Have you talked to him abotu this?

It was all rather confusing to me. either that, or i'm just reeeallyy tired

no i haven't talked to him. but after i have slept and prayed, i realize that he has been like this before, i just let him be and eventually he opens up. i knew he was like this before we started dating because he did that then. it will be okay it's just really hard to not worry. i also realize that i love him no matter what is going on.it's probably not me, because i haven't given him a reason to be upset ewith me, somebody may have done something or said something at school.

Still, maybe talking to him about it might help.