I have a problem with invisibilty. At home and around some of my close friends it is a peice of cake to be myself, but at school I just...I become really shy. A couple of days ago in Language arts a guy in my class turned around after I raised my hand to ask a question and said, "I didnt even know you were here", and that is not a first. Not only that, but there is this guy that I have a crush on and he doesn't even know I exist. I really like him and want to be friends with him, but he is popular and you can't be shy and still be popular. I really dont care about the whole popular idea I just want to sort of be friends or at least let him know I exist. I have tried to talk but I cant think of any thing to say. So does anyone know what I should do?:(

I get that way every once in a while too. I guess it's not as bad for me though, because everyone attempts to talk to me anyway. Just start branching out one person at a time. Don't start by talking to the guy. Talk to a few girls first, then talk to other guys. You just have to take it one step at a time. =)

I have a coulple good friends at school but some of them...actually most of them are on team 2 and I am on team 1. Well suerly monday I can find some other girl on my team to talk to.

im shy too but i would talk to people and ask what he is into so that you can talk to him and have somting to talk to. mandi:silly:

I have talked to him before and he is really nice. Sometimes he'll even talk to me but it barely ever happens and if he does it is when his friends aren't around and he has no one to talk to. The last time we had a conversation going was in October. Since it has been so long I don't know how to start a conversation. Or how to get him to be my friend.:unsure: He goes to my church and every time I go to talk to him or just say hi I either get to shy or I have to go somewhere. Plus I am afraid of what he would say back. :( Do you think it would be a good idea to try to get a conversation started at a church event and if so what should I say to start the conversation started.:dry: