well for new years eve this guy i like (and he likes me back) came over with his family and i thought it would be great.....but then this guy ,that is nice and all but i dont like him that much, came over and he met the guy i like. well they started hanging out (and im not jealous....trust me i thought i was but i realized it was different) and the guy started being all sexist and started talking about hot girls, and kept on saying stuff like "get me ice-cream...its your job as a woman". he got on my nerves a lot. but then my guy was like agreeing with him. i dont get it...he never acts like that at church and all. im wondering if this is the way he always acts when im not around...i just dont know. help

[b]abigailnicole49 wrote:[/b] [quote]well for new years eve this guy i like (and he likes me back) came over with his family and i thought it would be great.....but then this guy ,that is nice and all but i dont like him that much, came over and he met the guy i like. well they started hanging out (and im not jealous....trust me i thought i was but i realized it was different) and the guy started being all sexist and started talking about hot girls, and kept on saying stuff like "get me ice-cream...its your job as a woman". he got on my nerves a lot. but then my guy was like agreeing with him. i dont get it...he never acts like that at church and all. im wondering if this is the way he always acts when im not around...i just dont know. help[/quote] Well hun, let me tell you my little story. As a woman firefighter before the guys started to get to know me, some of them would be like "go get me a drink its your job as a woman". Ya know how I fixed his problem? I told him "Sure hun what kind you want?" And went in their and got it (made sure it had alot of ice) and went in there and poured it all over his pants. Lets just say the guys respect me now (especially him) and we all the time joke about it. He is actually a really sweet guy, just sorta stubborn when you first meet him (like me).. But anyways back to my point. Things ain't always how they seem. Or in this case people ain't always how they seem. He may have been tryin to "impress" that other guy.. (it still doesnt make it right) Or maybe thats just how he really is, and you just finally got to see "the real him". Who knows, but I wish ya luck ;) (Hope that helped!)

It could just be boys being boys. You know, boys DO like to tease girls they like. I don't recommend that if they start asking for ice cream, that you get it then dump it on their heads or anything. Or ask for anything. Trust me. :dry:

i agree with the second reply definatelyyyB) ;) :P :laugh: :blink: :unsure: :silly: :lol: :woohoo: :S :side: :dry: :cheer: :blush:

[b]ladybug01 wrote:[/b] [quote]i agree with the second reply definatelyyyB) ;) :P :laugh: :blink: :unsure: :silly: :lol: :woohoo: :S :side: :dry: :cheer: :blush:[/quote] haha