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lameyO
18 year(s) ago

ok so is it right to like someone 4 or 5 years older than you

bagirl1234
18 year(s) ago

[b]lameyO wrote:[/b] [quote]ok so is it right to like someone 4 or 5 years older than you[/quote] so hes like 17 or 18? i dont think thats actually liking him. just a crush

lameyO
18 year(s) ago

he is 16!!!!! how many times do i have to tell you and there's a bunch of other girls in our church and he only hangs out with me

horses4ever23
18 year(s) ago

you're only 12, stand back. And just because he hangs with you it doesn't mean much. God doesn't want us jumping into romantic relationships and situations when we are still young and mostly innocent. Keep it at friends, if he still likes you when your, say, 16? then its okay. It might seem like a long time but I'm sure God wants you to wait.

softballgirl10
18 year(s) ago

my youth pastor is 13 years older than his wife and they are fine but if ur young then dont act on it

lalaweast124
18 year(s) ago

[b]lameyO wrote:[/b] [quote]ok so is it right to like someone 4 or 5 years older than you[/quote] i think if he is like 3 years its fine my ex boyfriends was three years older then me i think if hes lke sixteen to me its fine but wouldnt date ny one lder then that if i was 12 but i think it finr if ur rents go with it

bj-jw-sb
18 year(s) ago

i think if u were older like 20 or some age doesnt matter but @ like 13-15 no way i mean i like a guy who is in 11th but that doesnt mean i would ever ask him out!! hope i helped :lol:

tinkgurl77
18 year(s) ago

well its not a very good idea i mean if ur oh say like 12 and he's 13 or 14 thats ok but if he's like 16 17 and ur 12 no i mean it's ok to have like a crush on him sure but if he asks u out no

xXBeautiful-TragedyXx
18 year(s) ago

depends on how old you are.if you're like, 15 and they're 17 i think its ok...18 if they are a respectable and decent guy (like wouldnt try anything w/ u) it just depends on your age, and yours and his maturity levels

harkee33
18 year(s) ago

Yeah that is ok....but if he is married i wouldnt suggest even considering him to like:) . in fact i like someone who is about five years older than me..so have no fear you are not alone:) . (Emilie)

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