My parents always look down on me and then treat my brothers like they are some sort of saints... they will always get mean to me and start getting mad at me for no reason and then when i stand up for myself and tell them that they are hurting me they go like " why are you so difficult? you brothers never gave us such a hard time!" and when we go to family get togethers they start complaining about me and talk bad about me! once i was on my grandmas computer in her den and they were in the dining room and i could totally hear them. then my uncle came in the room and he was like "so they are talking bad about you, huh?" i nearly started to cry but i held it in and just nodded and he hugged me and left the room. how can i get them to stop or just how to ignore what they say?i love them but come on. i just really need some help.:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

[b]bekahisme wrote:[/b] [quote]My parents always look down on me and then treat my brothers like they are some sort of saints... they will always get mean to me and start getting mad at me for no reason and then when i stand up for myself and tell them that they are hurting me they go like " why are you so difficult? you brothers never gave us such a hard time!" and when we go to family get togethers they start complaining about me and talk bad about me! once i was on my grandmas computer in her den and they were in the dining room and i could totally hear them. then my uncle came in the room and he was like "so they are talking bad about you, huh?" i nearly started to cry but i held it in and just nodded and he hugged me and left the room. how can i get them to stop or just how to ignore what they say?i love them but come on. i just really need some help.:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :([/quote] I kinda know what that feels like...My parents used to do that when my little sister was born and for a few years thereafter. I, being 7-10 talked to my pastors wife, cause i got along with her quite well. it really helped to have someone to talk to and share my feelings with. My parents eventually stopped doing it, i think God probably spoke to their hearts. But maybe just pray for them and for God to comfort you. That always helps! I am so sorry that you have to experience this, and i will be praying for you!

Post edited by: findingwhoweare, at: 2007/08/31 08:55

that is so sad!!! i know it hurts you. it would kill me if my parents would talk about me like that.i know they never would, but c'mon!, their adults!! i think you should pray about it. ask god 2 help you and your parents. if you trust in him, he will help u through this time. and trust me, he knows how u feel. from, spotzfan293:) [color=#FF0000][/color][color=#0000FF][/color][size=4][/size]