Wow, for all the talk that woman are deeper thinkers than men (hey, not me, but the all-powerful 'them' :ohmy: ), I've come to the realization that guys are actually more concerned with what matters than girls are. Not that girls aren't concerned, but we don't seem to think about LIFE. We don't ask for fellowship like guys tend to. Not that ALL guys do, mind. I can think of several who wouldn't be caught dead talking about real stuff w/another guy. For example, guys are more willing to talk about their struggles w/sex than girls are. They are more willing to ask for help to over come a tempatation. Even though guys don't speak as much, I think that when they do speak about what matters, they've been thinking about it for a while. Come to think of it, I've only had 'deep' talks with guys and one girl, who is just as philisophical (woah, sorry about the spelling!) as I am. Huh, wow... Ladies, we need to get a grip! Did you know that when guys ask about a relationship, it's asking for advice on how to stay out of trouble? I'm sorry, ladies, but this board has gotten absolutely trashy!! Enough with the 'how can I get so-and-so to notice me' junk! When guys do ask for stuff like that, it's usually an older teen asking for help w/someone whom he KNOWS and RESPECTS, and has known for a while. And, did you know that guys (the ones who are real men, anyways) DON'T LIKE clothing like miniskirts, skin-tight shirts, low-cut shirts, etc? Did you know guys HATE it when girls are all over them (except for those who are not worth being with)? Did you know that real men dislike flirting? When I first came to MyPraize, this was a forum where women and girls could chat about REAL issues. Now it's just a shallow dating site. What happened, ladies?

Silly little girls thinking they're Christian and still wanting to sell their hearts to every guy BUT Christ signing up is what went wrong. I'm sorry, 13 year olds and under, but that's the impression you give.

[b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]Silly little girls thinking they're Christian and still wanting to sell their hearts to every guy BUT Christ signing up is what went wrong. I'm sorry, 13 year olds and under, but that's the impression you give.[/quote] :( Sad, but true... :(

Personally, I think it's kinda sad that the main people asking for dating advice are pre-teen girls. Girls that age should not be worrying about guys. Yeah, I do remember when this forum used to have deep talks in it, and it would be great if it could get back to that. All shallow talk get moved to Open Disscussion or the Advice forum.

AMEN SISTERS i do somtimes want to think about that shallow stuff cause its fun and it feeds the flesh but its a battle all the time and when there are a lot of forums and stuff about dating (and it is somthing close to my heart) then girls will want to date more because everyone else is doing it....not just girls who arent saved.and its really dangerous to feed your flesh.i heard this analogy once (and chances are that you've heard it too) that if there are two dogs who are fighting,which one is gonna win the battle? the one you feed more.so when all we think about is stuff of this world then were feeding the enemy.and one of my friends went on the guys only forum and told me some of the stuff on there......helloworld is right.they do have deeper discussions and if they came to the girls only forum i think they might be a little dissapointed.and thats not even the point.what if Jesus came on here and saw all the junk we talk about.(and he does see it) what do you think he thinks about it.one of the bigest downfalls of christian youth is that we dont have christian fellowship.yeah we're christians and we fellowship but real fellowshipis talking about God and our walk with Christ.and dont get mad at me cause i am applying to myself too. one more thing...if one person starts a forum on "how too get the guy" it starts a lot of ppl talking about it and then more "how do i get the guy" forums pop up.so sisters if you can help it ....dont make any more of those,and if you wanna talk about it just continue somone elses forum.and im not saying that all of those forums are bad ,some have some really good advice,and some girls have really hard problems that they need good advice...but if its not quite that important then try not to make it like that. p.s. sorry for making this so long.:) ;) :P