Ok, so I met this guy a few weeks ago. Well, I gave him my number and this past weekend we went on our first date. I had the most amazing time, the only problem is that he lives over an hour away and is pretty busy. This is my dilema, we haven't had a real conversation yet since our date. Should I continue to pursue a relationship?

I really can't say for sure. Long distances are always hard, but if you both are willing to take it sereously, I don't see the problem. Also, you should call him and have a real conversation.

How old are you hun? An hour isn't that far, I'm about to be about 4 hours away from my boyfriend because I'm moving away to uni and he is working. I honestly say don't do long distance thing unless you can honestly 100% see yourself marrying the guy or are seriously talking about marriage (and I'm thinking 18+ here). How often do you think you'd be able to see him?

[b]randomly-awesome wrote:[/b] [quote]I really can't say for sure. Long distances are always hard, but if you both are willing to take it sereously, I don't see the problem. Also, you should call him and have a real conversation.[/quote] [color=#000080]I agree!!!! I was in one for a little over a year and it was HARD!!!!! Not being able to see him all the time, didn't know what he was doing and doing it with, and none the less, he has no cell phone and didn't get to talk to him much. He used the same exuse: "I've been busy. Sorry baby". But he lived/s with his mom and had/s NO job!!![/color]