:unsure: i don't have a boyfriend and i've been unhooked 4 a very long time and if you know any one who is 10 and you feel like you trust him pleasw notify me and have them get on my profile also make sure that he is fine hot cute and unmetionable things so please HELP MMMMMMMMMMMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!

Hun, you're WAY too young for a boyfriend. Wait until you're 16+. Until then, if you're lonely, spend some time with family, friends, and most importantly- God. :)

[b]NinjaUnicorn wrote:[/b] [quote]Hun, you're WAY too young for a boyfriend. Wait until you're 16+. Until then, if you're lonely, spend some time with family, friends, and most importantly- God. :)[/quote] Whoa, whoa, whoa... hold up! She doesn't have to wait at all; Kayla, you're not even 15 yet. I assume you've had a boyfriend; it doesn't matter what age she is. She came here asking for advice, and I am willing to give it to her. You can't criticize her just because she's too young; you shouldn't be telling people about "relationships" because in your world, you're STILL too young. But chica (monkey4); if you are that starved for a relationship, just wait until the right guy comes again. Don't go looking for love, because love will find you. (Or vice versa)

[b]beicountrified wrote:[/b] [quote] Whoa, whoa, whoa... hold up! She doesn't have to wait at all;[/quote] But she [i]should[/i] wait. Boyfriends at that age are just pointless. [quote]Kayla, you're not even 15 yet.[/quote] So? I don't believe that disqualifies me from giving advice. [quote]I assume you've had a boyfriend;[/quote] *hangs head in shame* Actually, I can't lie to you all. Yes, I have. I didn't even really consider it a boyfriend, though. I considered that situation one where we were just "really good friends". Now, looking back, I wish that I never, ever would have gone in that direction. I've been whipped into shape, and I have made a vow to not get another boyfriend until I'm WAY older. [quote]it doesn't matter what age she is.[/quote] Yes, actually, it does. [quote] She came here asking for advice, and I am willing to give it to her.[/quote] I am too. "Don't date yet." was my advice. [quote]You can't criticize her just because she's too young;[/quote] I didn't criticize her. I gave my opinion. [quote]you shouldn't be telling people about "relationships" because in your world, you're STILL too young.[/quote] In that case, [i]you[/i] are younger than [i]me[/i], so what in the world are you doing giving such advice? [quote]But chica (monkey4); if you are that starved for a relationship, just wait until the right guy comes again. Don't go looking for love, because love will find you. (Or vice versa)[/quote] That's actually some nice advice. Of course, I'd like to add on: Don't expect love to come around until you're older. It [i]might[/i] happen at an early age, but don't count too much on it. It's not very common.

[b]beicountrified wrote:[/b] [quote][b]NinjaUnicorn wrote:[/b] [quote]Hun, you're WAY too young for a boyfriend. Wait until you're 16+. Until then, if you're lonely, spend some time with family, friends, and most importantly- God. :)[/quote] Whoa, whoa, whoa... hold up! She doesn't have to wait at all; Kayla, you're not even 15 yet. I assume you've had a boyfriend; it doesn't matter what age she is. She came here asking for advice, and I am willing to give it to her. You can't criticize her just because she's too young; you shouldn't be telling people about "relationships" because in your world, you're STILL too young. But chica (monkey4); if you are that starved for a relationship, just wait until the right guy comes again. Don't go looking for love, because love will find you. (Or vice versa)[/quote] She's not criticizing her, she's giving her advice. She's right, this girl is way too young to be dating. I say she shouldn't date at this age, because dating prepares for marriage, and I just think she is too young to even be thinking about it. If she dates a guy at her age, is she really going to end up marrying him? Is it worth the hurt in the end? I can't predict if she has a boyfriend right now that they won't get married, but it's very highly likely that it will happen. Monkey4, you shouldn't go looking for relationships. If God has someone in store for you, you should wait, not look. God will let you know when the right man comes along. Instead of looking for a relationship, especially at this age, you should focus on your relationship with God. Like Kayla said, if you're lonely, try spending time with family and friends, and most importantly, God. When I say someone is too young to date, I'm just trying to help them. Dating also requires maturity. If you're not even mature enough to be dating, even if you're 16, then I wouldn't advice you date.

[b]Anko wrote:[/b] [quote][b]beicountrified wrote:[/b] [quote][b]NinjaUnicorn wrote:[/b] [quote]Hun, you're WAY too young for a boyfriend. Wait until you're 16+. Until then, if you're lonely, spend some time with family, friends, and most importantly- God. :)[/quote] Whoa, whoa, whoa... hold up! She doesn't have to wait at all; Kayla, you're not even 15 yet. I assume you've had a boyfriend; it doesn't matter what age she is. She came here asking for advice, and I am willing to give it to her. You can't criticize her just because she's too young; you shouldn't be telling people about "relationships" because in your world, you're STILL too young. But chica (monkey4); if you are that starved for a relationship, just wait until the right guy comes again. Don't go looking for love, because love will find you. (Or vice versa)[/quote] She's not criticizing her, she's giving her advice. She's right, this girl is way too young to be dating. I say she shouldn't date at this age, because dating prepares for marriage, and I just think she is too young to even be thinking about it. If she dates a guy at her age, is she really going to end up marrying him? Is it worth the hurt in the end? I can't predict if she has a boyfriend right now that they won't get married, but it's very highly likely that it will happen. Monkey4, you shouldn't go looking for relationships. If God has someone in store for you, you should wait, not look. God will let you know when the right man comes along. Instead of looking for a relationship, especially at this age, you should focus on your relationship with God. Like Kayla said, if you're lonely, try spending time with family and friends, and most importantly, God. When I say someone is too young to date, I'm just trying to help them. Dating also requires maturity. If you're not even mature enough to be dating, even if you're 16, then I wouldn't advice you date.[/quote] I completely agree with you.

[b]NinjaUnicorn wrote:[/b] [quote][b]beicountrified wrote:[/b] [quote] Whoa, whoa, whoa... hold up! She doesn't have to wait at all;[/quote] But she [i]should[/i] wait. Boyfriends at that age are just pointless. [quote]Kayla, you're not even 15 yet.[/quote] So? I don't believe that disqualifies me from giving advice. [quote]I assume you've had a boyfriend;[/quote] *hangs head in shame* Actually, I can't lie to you all. Yes, I have. I didn't even really consider it a boyfriend, though. I considered that situation one where we were just "really good friends". Now, looking back, I wish that I never, ever would have gone in that direction. I've been whipped into shape, and I have made a vow to not get another boyfriend until I'm WAY older. [quote]it doesn't matter what age she is.[/quote] Yes, actually, it does. [quote] She came here asking for advice, and I am willing to give it to her.[/quote] I am too. "Don't date yet." was my advice. [quote]You can't criticize her just because she's too young;[/quote] I didn't criticize her. I gave my opinion. [quote]you shouldn't be telling people about "relationships" because in your world, you're STILL too young.[/quote] In that case, [i]you[/i] are younger than [i]me[/i], so what in the world are you doing giving such advice? [quote]But chica (monkey4); if you are that starved for a relationship, just wait until the right guy comes again. Don't go looking for love, because love will find you. (Or vice versa)[/quote] That's actually some nice advice. Of course, I'd like to add on: Don't expect love to come around until you're older. It [i]might[/i] happen at an early age, but don't count too much on it. It's not very common.[/quote] I like the way you did that; I shouldn't have said that. She should wait, but also, doesn't it make you kind-of a hypocrite you telling her to wait when you haven't?

[b]beicountrified wrote:[/b] [quote] I like the way you did that; I shouldn't have said that. She should wait, but also, doesn't it make you kind-of a hypocrite you telling her to wait when you haven't?[/quote] Some people might call me a hypocrite, but I'm only trying to help others to not make the same mistake I made and feel the same regret I do. That's all.

[b]NinjaUnicorn wrote:[/b] [quote][b]beicountrified wrote:[/b] [quote] I like the way you did that; I shouldn't have said that. She should wait, but also, doesn't it make you kind-of a hypocrite you telling her to wait when you haven't?[/quote] Some people might call me a hypocrite, but I'm only trying to help others to not make the same mistake I made and feel the same regret I do. That's all.[/quote] A learned mistake is not hypocricy, it's the wisdom that comes with age. When you touch a fire, you find out that it will burn you, no? So when you see someone else moving to touch the same flame, do you stand back saying, "oh, i can't warn that person because i did the same thing. they'll just have to wait and find out." or do you speak up and save someone from a lot of pain and humiliation? It's in the other person's best interests that they be warned of whats to come if they do, then make the choice for themselves. If no one had ever touched the flame to be able to WARN others about what it does, then there would be a heck of a lot of chaos. That's wisdom that comes from experience, and experience with age.

[b]THeMadHatter wrote:[/b] [quote][b]NinjaUnicorn wrote:[/b] [quote][b]beicountrified wrote:[/b] [quote] I like the way you did that; I shouldn't have said that. She should wait, but also, doesn't it make you kind-of a hypocrite you telling her to wait when you haven't?[/quote] Some people might call me a hypocrite, but I'm only trying to help others to not make the same mistake I made and feel the same regret I do. That's all.[/quote] A learned mistake is not hypocricy, it's the wisdom that comes with age. When you touch a fire, you find out that it will burn you, no? So when you see someone else moving to touch the same flame, do you stand back saying, "oh, i can't warn that person because i did the same thing. they'll just have to wait and find out." or do you speak up and save someone from a lot of pain and humiliation? It's in the other person's best interests that they be warned of whats to come if they do, then make the choice for themselves. If no one had ever touched the flame to be able to WARN others about what it does, then there would be a heck of a lot of chaos. That's wisdom that comes from experience, and experience with age.[/quote] Very well said. :)