There is a guy at our church, and he seems really nice, but he doesnt really talk to girls. I dont have many friends at our church, so i was kinda going through all the people that go there and trying to figure out who a good person to be friends with would be. Pretty much all of the girls there dont like me that much, so i was going thru the guys and he was one of the only ones who seemed nice. The only problem is, i am really shy around people when i first meet them. So i was wondering, does anybody have any ideas? Is there anyone who may be in a similar situation? Any help is appreciated! Thanks in advance! ~J.~

Okay, I am not exactly the joking kind of person, i am kinda more serious but i guess i will just play it by ear. Okay, guess i would have to introduce myself first, lol, wow this will be hard. It would be so much easier if someone could introduce us. hmm, i would have to look into that. but yeah, i totally wouldnt want it to look like i was flirting cause i dont want a bf, just a friend. Thank-you for the ideas and the prayers! Does any1 else have any ideas or stories that they could share?

:silly: SO IF HE SEEMS LIKE HE WOULD MAKE A GOOD FRIEND, TALK TO HIM :blink: I KNOW OOOOHHHHH SPOOKEY BUT IF THERE IS AN EMPTY CHAIR NEXT TO HIM SAY MIND IF I SIT NEXT TO YOU??? IF HE SAYS SURE THEN THERE YA GO, ALSO REMEMBER TO PRAY AND ASK GOD TO GIVE U A GOOD FRIEND HE WILL GOD BLESS GOOD SHINE BRIGHT 4 JESUSB)

Thank you for the advice! I appreciate it. I just very well may try that stuff out! omw though, please pray for me. I am pretty nervous about talking with people if they dont talk to me first, but i really want to make some new friends so yeah. Thanks again!

Just don't worry about it. :) Making the first move and introducing yourself is really hard but it's worth it. Don't beat yourself up either if things don't turn out the way you wanted them. Just be yourself. If people don't want to be your friend then its their loss, not yours. Good luck!! My hear goes out to you!!!

Yes, it is difficult but i know it is worth it. I will try not to. I just hope it will turn out good. I am always myself, that is why most people dont like me. Okay thank you!