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jcpenney
16 year(s) ago

i have a boyfriend and i really like him alot but i have a hrd time talking to him on the phone. I can talk to him face to face and texting but i can't on the phone. i want to tell him how much i like him face to face or on the phone but i can tell him anything other than what i want to tell him face to face so what should i do i sometimes can't sleep because of it i want him to know how much i care about him and since i haven't told him i don't want him to think i don't care about him what should i do

NinjaUnicorn
16 year(s) ago

[b]Reasons you can't tell him:[/b] 1) You're obviously too immature. 2) You can't handle a relationship. [b]Reasons you should break up with him:[/b] 1) You're too immature. 2) You can't handle a relationship. 3) You're only 14. That's too young. 4) You need to focus on other things. You probably hate me now, but I'm just giving the facts. I'm sure others would tell you the same.

jcpenney
16 year(s) ago

i don't hate you but you are not getting it! i am very mature for my age and plus im turning 15 in like 5 months i can handle it

NinjaUnicorn
16 year(s) ago

*sigh* Yes, I do get it. If you can not open up to him whenever and wherever and under any circumstances, then you shouldn't be dating him! I don't care when you're turning 15. You are still 14 and that's too young. Even 15 is too young in my opinion. *another sigh* Sorry, I'm getting off on my opinions. My opinion about your age no longer matters. What does matter though is the fact that you obviously can't open up to him. That is key in every relationship.

jcpenney
16 year(s) ago

i just get really shy and nervous. i worry that maybe he will take it the wrong way. thanks you are helping to decide what to do

Megglz
16 year(s) ago

i think you should just come right out and tell him because you don't want him to break up with you and he more tha likely wants to no how you feel!

jcpenney
16 year(s) ago

thank you thats all i wanted to know is if anyone thought i should just go ahead and tell him so thankyou meggiz

NinjaUnicorn
16 year(s) ago

Well, if I hurt her feelings, I am sorry. I did not mean to do that. I was simply telling the truth. And not only parents can distinguish between immature/mature. My friends tell me that I'm immature all the time. :P It's okay though. I know I still act like I'm 5. haha :lol:

hcaldwell5
16 year(s) ago

i have too agree w/ megglz

violinforchrist
16 year(s) ago

i kinda agree with her on the part about how u dont know if she is mature or not. YOU ARE NOT HER. She should be the judge of herself not all of you. no another note you WERE the one to ask for advice and you not always going to like what you hear. i think that you should really talk to your bf about how you arnt comfortable talking to him on the phone. see what he says and go from there:)

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