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my brother is hurting...

kbugg
18 year(s) ago

my brother and his girlfriend just broke up after two years of going out....i can really tell he's hurting inside...he dosen't see it now but i think that it was good that they broke up... i mean she was kind of mean and she was changing his whole personality she started to kind of turn him into a jerk...i know he is really hurting though...how do i help?? i mean i've never seen him like this...he stayed in his room the whole night...wouldn't let anyone in....and he just cried you could hear him all the way upstairs...what do i do??

MySaviorLives4Eva
18 year(s) ago

Hope he gets better...just pray for him and let him have his space for a while, but be sure to let him that when he is ready to talk you are there for him.

ToosieR
18 year(s) ago

what i would od is telk to him private and maybe he would get his x off his mind!!!!

aav-jewel
18 year(s) ago

Comfort your brother with the knowledge that God is there for him, he should be taking refuge with God right now and you should pray that he understands that all things happen for a reason even if it looks bleak, and everything will turn out for the better in the end if you trust and rely on God to take care of things. :) God Bless, I know its hard. ~~Been there done that~~

kbugg
18 year(s) ago

lol! i think they got back togethor...i don't know though. i thought that they were really broken up this time...i can't keep up with him...thanks for the advice though...now i'll know what to do the next time they break up!!LOL!

luv2luv13
18 year(s) ago

if that was my brother i would give him some room..then just let him know that u r there for him,

KitesInMonsoons
18 year(s) ago

You dont have to do much When you see him simply tell him "God knows what you're going through and he feels your pain but trust him this is all his plan although some things don't come out in a happy ending thats how life is and you just have to trust him believe in him and he will take care of it thats what he wants you to do" anything you need justtt message me im here ttyl love. [img]http://www.mypraize.com/components/com_joomlaboard/uploaded/images/black_2520peace_2520sign-78e9df334297dcd4bb5db1995ce2a716.jpg[/img]

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