Ok, I have just gotten out of my first serious relationship... things just went way wrong lets say that. I was engaged even for a short time but it just was not in God's plan. It has taken two months for me to get this far to where I am not in tears over the whole thing (stupid yes I know). I need to know what I am suppose to do from here.... I am praying and seeing what God has planned for me.... I have even thought of taking a long break from dating all together and seeing how that works out, but it seems like everyone is paired up, especially this time of year.... I just need some input, like what have you all done in similar situations! -Sister in Christ

Post edited by: Shawndra, at: 2007/01/01 02:16

I know that it's not easy when everyone else around you seems to be in pairs. However, this is a wonderful time for you to focus on your relationship with God and fall more in love with Him. If you feel Him telling you to wait on a relationship, then wait. God loves you, and His plan is always best. Enjoy having and making friends, focus on Him, and wait for His leading.

hey hun omg i feel u sooo much right now i just got out of a long relationship it lasted 3 years and we were also engaged our relationship also went really wrong... it is the 3rd month without him and it stil is on my mind and its still hard but i clinged to all my friends and more important cling to god...dont try to replace him with sex... it doesnt work it hurts u worse... i am myself taking a break from boys my heart needs some serious healing... i am here for you i always will be... i feel ur pain... BBB<>< chelsea