Ok so there is this boy, who is really nice, funny and cute to the max! I like him a lot, and he likes me. The problem is, one of my good friends has been crushing on him for a really long time! I have also really liked this guy for a while, but I'm worried about my friend. She said it was okay for us to be boyfriend and girlfriend, but I can tell she is really sad. She says she'll move on to other guys that she might have a chance with, and part of me wants to go for him with nothing else on my mind. But the other part says "What about my good friend? What is she going to do? Will she spread romours about me that I'm a bad friend? AND a man stealer?" HELP ME OUT CHICKAS! Love you all, thanks for the help- Paapaa :wub:

Answer me this: why do you like this guy?

[b]keyseya wrote:[/b] [quote]Answer me this: why do you like this guy?[/quote] NOTE: I'm asking this to prove a point, not to growl you or anything :)

[b]paapaa wrote:[/b] [quote]Ok so there is this boy, who is really nice, funny and cute to the max! I like him a lot, and he likes me. The problem is, one of my good friends has been crushing on him for a really long time! I have also really liked this guy for a while, but I'm worried about my friend. She said it was okay for us to be boyfriend and girlfriend, but I can tell she is really sad. She says she'll move on to other guys that she might have a chance with, and part of me wants to go for him with nothing else on my mind. But the other part says "What about my good friend? What is she going to do? Will she spread romours about me that I'm a bad friend? AND a man stealer?" HELP ME OUT CHICKAS! Love you all, thanks for the help- Paapaa :wub:[/quote] I'm going to quote lil-rush from another thread (I forget which thread though): "If this guy wasn't cute to the max, would you still like him?". :) If you are under 16, I wouldn't really suggest that you date anyway. However, if she were to spread rumors about you, calling you a bad friend and a man-stealer, then she wouldn't really seem like a true friend. I think this guy you like that likes you....if you don't date, I am sure you both will move on and find someone else. God will send you the right guy, if it is His will. In the meantime, God should be your main focus, and you should work on your relationship with Him.

2 things 1- if you friend said you could date him then you shouldn't worry about her spreading rumers and talking bad behind you back 2- if you really think she might do that stuff she may not be a good friend

I don't trust guys.

[b]monkeys345 wrote:[/b] [quote]I don't trust guys.[/quote] May I ask why?