[b]cheer09 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]I've been reading some of these threads, and have to sigh yet again. The never ending argument about "I'm tired of all these young un's thinking they're in love!" and "I am too in love! Shut your pie hole!". It's true, I've had my fair share in these arguments (you can all go to my blog for proof) and now I just want to say one thing. Young people, you can go ahead and date. No one's going to stop you. You can think you're in love, and we can think you're not. But there are two things I would like you all to remember when you go out "dating": If dating is preparing you for marriage, then breaking up is preparing you for divorce. Your heart is like a piece of paper, every time you date a guy, you rip off a piece of that paper and give it to him, and you can never get it back. So if you date a bunch of guys when you're young, how much of your heart will be left to give to your husband? G-d bless.[/quote] GOD never wanted us to be divorced and thats is not wat breaking up is for!! its just a part of life!!!!!! you can think that if you want but its not true! im 17 and yeah i think you have a point but at the same time you need to learn more about what your saying be fore you say it!!!!!! and your heart thing you just need to take that off because the only way your giving your heart to some one is if you with them another way than just going on dates doing stuff you shouldnt be doing till your married!!!!! every has a first love it might not be true but they do! yeah also you guys should just learn that people can fall in love around 12 and 13 because a family at my church have been together sence the was 12 when they was in jr high and they are maddy in love and would do anything! if you having boyfriend problems than you should ask on here if you want and not worry what people think worry what god thinks he is the only one who has the prefect plan for you and also if i made you mad but what you said is not true GOD never wanted us to divorce our husbands but sorry i had to tell youthat Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:20<br><br>Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:22[/quote] They may have been together ever since they were twelve, but do you think they honestly LOVED each other in that way when they were so young? They may have lvoed each other as friends but I don't think the real love would have sparked yet. But I do respect you for stating your opinions! And I do not think anyone should go on dates so freely, only if you've been friends with him for some time and you are sure it will work out and that you do love him and if your parents accept it as well, if they do not want you dating but won't really stop you, its better to not date and honor your parents and their opinions. :)

[b]horses4ever23 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]cheer09 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]I've been reading some of these threads, and have to sigh yet again. The never ending argument about "I'm tired of all these young un's thinking they're in love!" and "I am too in love! Shut your pie hole!". It's true, I've had my fair share in these arguments (you can all go to my blog for proof) and now I just want to say one thing. Young people, you can go ahead and date. No one's going to stop you. You can think you're in love, and we can think you're not. But there are two things I would like you all to remember when you go out "dating": If dating is preparing you for marriage, then breaking up is preparing you for divorce. Your heart is like a piece of paper, every time you date a guy, you rip off a piece of that paper and give it to him, and you can never get it back. So if you date a bunch of guys when you're young, how much of your heart will be left to give to your husband? G-d bless.[/quote] GOD never wanted us to be divorced and thats is not wat breaking up is for!! its just a part of life!!!!!! you can think that if you want but its not true! im 17 and yeah i think you have a point but at the same time you need to learn more about what your saying be fore you say it!!!!!! and your heart thing you just need to take that off because the only way your giving your heart to some one is if you with them another way than just going on dates doing stuff you shouldnt be doing till your married!!!!! every has a first love it might not be true but they do! yeah also you guys should just learn that people can fall in love around 12 and 13 because a family at my church have been together sence the was 12 when they was in jr high and they are maddy in love and would do anything! if you having boyfriend problems than you should ask on here if you want and not worry what people think worry what god thinks he is the only one who has the prefect plan for you and also if i made you mad but what you said is not true GOD never wanted us to divorce our husbands but sorry i had to tell youthat Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:20<br><br>Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:22[/quote] They may have been together ever since they were twelve, but do you think they honestly LOVED each other in that way when they were so young? They may have lvoed each other as friends but I don't think the real love would have sparked yet. But I do respect you for stating your opinions! And I do not think anyone should go on dates so freely, only if you've been friends with him for some time and you are sure it will work out and that you do love him and if your parents accept it as well, if they do not want you dating but won't really stop you, its better to not date and honor your parents and their opinions. :)[/quote] i agree with you on the parents thing but i have found out you jsut dont love some one most kids these days its hard for them to find out that you learn to love someone but and to some one up there um its kinda like divorce but its not preparing you for divorce with your husband you should know what that person is about and if they dont beleive in what you do than they are not the guy for you and all so if they hit you leive asap!!! GOD said there is only a few you should leive your husband and i think thats on of them!!!!!! i love you all and this is just my opinion but i will have some of things for the bible to put up to show you why i feel this way!

I do know, however that that is not all entirely true, meaning I sorta agree with you cheer09. My dad was married to someone else before he married my mom and they had a divorce. but he married my mom and they have been married for 15-16 years, something around there, and i think they will stay together forever. So even if you have had a divorse there is a happy ending so you can dump many guys and still get married. The lord forigves you for everything you do and if you will let him he will give you the happiest life possible. :D

[b]horses4ever23 wrote:[/b] [quote]I do know, however that that is not all entirely true, meaning I sorta agree with you cheer09. My dad was married to someone else before he married my mom and they had a divorce. but he married my mom and they have been married for 15-16 years, something around there, and i think they will stay together forever. So even if you have had a divorse there is a happy ending so you can dump many guys and still get married. The lord forigves you for everything you do and if you will let him he will give you the happiest life possible. :D[/quote] im not saying he wont forgive you im just saying thats not how he wanted it to be he wants us to be happy and i know he'll for give us for out sins so im not trying to put this toward you and your family at all this is just how i feel if we just pray and lison to God about our relationships than if its not suposed to happen than it wont but you have to ask god and see waht he has to say first

Yes I agree and I was not trying yo say that you said god won't forgive. I was just making a bit of a point that even if you do divorce you can still have a very happy life with a family and WONDERFUl wife who is also the best mom ever. LOL (speaking of my mom, that is) lol