I've been reading some of these threads, and have to sigh yet again. The never ending argument about "I'm tired of all these young un's thinking they're in love!" and "I am too in love! Shut your pie hole!". It's true, I've had my fair share in these arguments (you can all go to my blog for proof) and now I just want to say one thing. Young people, you can go ahead and date. No one's going to stop you. You can think you're in love, and we can think you're not. But there are two things I would like you all to remember when you go out "dating": If dating is preparing you for marriage, then breaking up is preparing you for divorce. Your heart is like a piece of paper, every time you date a guy, you rip off a piece of that paper and give it to him, and you can never get it back. So if you date a bunch of guys when you're young, how much of your heart will be left to give to your husband? G-d bless.

[b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]I've been reading some of these threads, and have to sigh yet again. The never ending argument about "I'm tired of all these young un's thinking they're in love!" and "I am too in love! Shut your pie hole!". It's true, I've had my fair share in these arguments (you can all go to my blog for proof) and now I just want to say one thing. Young people, you can go ahead and date. No one's going to stop you. You can think you're in love, and we can think you're not. But there are two things I would like you all to remember when you go out "dating": If dating is preparing you for marriage, then breaking up is preparing you for divorce. Your heart is like a piece of paper, every time you date a guy, you rip off a piece of that paper and give it to him, and you can never get it back. So if you date a bunch of guys when you're young, how much of your heart will be left to give to your husband? G-d bless.[/quote] what do you care if we ( when i say we i mean the younger population on here ) date guys you couldnt give a crap weither we date its not your choice its our parents and i have kissed a guy that is 17 and im only 11 [img size=145]http://www.mypraize.com/components/com_joomlaboard/uploaded/images/225955973.jpg[/img]

[b]mnelson129 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]I've been reading some of these threads, and have to sigh yet again. The never ending argument about "I'm tired of all these young un's thinking they're in love!" and "I am too in love! Shut your pie hole!". It's true, I've had my fair share in these arguments (you can all go to my blog for proof) and now I just want to say one thing. Young people, you can go ahead and date. No one's going to stop you. You can think you're in love, and we can think you're not. But there are two things I would like you all to remember when you go out "dating": If dating is preparing you for marriage, then breaking up is preparing you for divorce. Your heart is like a piece of paper, every time you date a guy, you rip off a piece of that paper and give it to him, and you can never get it back. So if you date a bunch of guys when you're young, how much of your heart will be left to give to your husband? G-d bless.[/quote] what do you care if we ( when i say we i mean the younger population on here ) date guys you couldnt give a crap weither we date its not your choice its our parents and i have kissed a guy that is 17 and im only 11 [img size=145]http://www.mypraize.com/components/com_joomlaboard/uploaded/images/225955973.jpg[/img][/quote] Bittersweet and I are both 13 and 14. We are pretty young too. But we aren't telling how to live. THat would be wrong.

Now wait just a minute. You know your rushing it if you kiss a guy that old when you shouldn't even have a BF until you are atleast 16! I have a friend who's 14 who always is chasing after guys and is always complaining that her heart is being broken and that she is dipressed. Does anyone really want to live like that? I think when you are young you should keep your focus on God and family. Really, you don't NEED a bf until you are older, maybe until you are even 19, so can't u just get your mind of boys? really...

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[b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]I've been reading some of these threads, and have to sigh yet again. The never ending argument about "I'm tired of all these young un's thinking they're in love!" and "I am too in love! Shut your pie hole!". It's true, I've had my fair share in these arguments (you can all go to my blog for proof) and now I just want to say one thing. Young people, you can go ahead and date. No one's going to stop you. You can think you're in love, and we can think you're not. But there are two things I would like you all to remember when you go out "dating": If dating is preparing you for marriage, then breaking up is preparing you for divorce. Your heart is like a piece of paper, every time you date a guy, you rip off a piece of that paper and give it to him, and you can never get it back. So if you date a bunch of guys when you're young, how much of your heart will be left to give to your husband? G-d bless.[/quote] GOD never wanted us to be divorced and thats is not wat breaking up is for!! its just a part of life!!!!!! you can think that if you want but its not true! im 17 and yeah i think you have a point but at the same time you need to learn more about what your saying be fore you say it!!!!!! and your heart thing you just need to take that off because the only way your giving your heart to some one is if you with them another way than just going on dates doing stuff you shouldnt be doing till your married!!!!! every has a first love it might not be true but they do! yeah also you guys should just learn that people can fall in love around 12 and 13 because a family at my church have been together sence the was 12 when they was in jr high and they are maddy in love and would do anything! if you having boyfriend problems than you should ask on here if you want and not worry what people think worry what god thinks he is the only one who has the prefect plan for you and also if i made you mad but what you said is not true GOD never wanted us to divorce our husbands but sorry i had to tell youthat Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:20

Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:22

[b]cheer09 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]I've been reading some of these threads, and have to sigh yet again. The never ending argument about "I'm tired of all these young un's thinking they're in love!" and "I am too in love! Shut your pie hole!". It's true, I've had my fair share in these arguments (you can all go to my blog for proof) and now I just want to say one thing. Young people, you can go ahead and date. No one's going to stop you. You can think you're in love, and we can think you're not. But there are two things I would like you all to remember when you go out "dating": If dating is preparing you for marriage, then breaking up is preparing you for divorce. Your heart is like a piece of paper, every time you date a guy, you rip off a piece of that paper and give it to him, and you can never get it back. So if you date a bunch of guys when you're young, how much of your heart will be left to give to your husband? G-d bless.[/quote] GOD never wanted us to be divorced and thats is not wat breaking up is for!! its just a part of life!!!!!! you can think that if you want but its not true! im 17 and yeah i think you have a point but at the same time you need to learn more about what your saying be fore you say it!!!!!! and your heart thing you just need to take that off because the only way your giving your heart to some one is if you with them another way than just going on dates doing stuff you shouldnt be doing till your married!!!!! every has a first love it might not be true but they do! yeah also you guys should just learn that people can fall in love around 12 and 13 because a family at my church have been together sence the was 12 when they was in jr high and they are maddy in love and would do anything! if you having boyfriend problems than you should ask on here if you want and not worry what people think worry what god thinks he is the only one who has the prefect plan for you and also if i made you mad but what you said is not true GOD never wanted us to divorce our husbands but sorry i had to tell youthat Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:20<br><br>Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:22[/quote] I dated three guys in middle school. Even after I dumped two of em, I still feel emotionally connected to them as if I was still dating them. And that includes the third. I'm not happy with that, and honestly wish now that I'd never dated them. Even after you leave a guy, you can't just say, "I don't care about him anymore." At least not for me.

[b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]cheer09 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]I've been reading some of these threads, and have to sigh yet again. The never ending argument about "I'm tired of all these young un's thinking they're in love!" and "I am too in love! Shut your pie hole!". It's true, I've had my fair share in these arguments (you can all go to my blog for proof) and now I just want to say one thing. Young people, you can go ahead and date. No one's going to stop you. You can think you're in love, and we can think you're not. But there are two things I would like you all to remember when you go out "dating": If dating is preparing you for marriage, then breaking up is preparing you for divorce. Your heart is like a piece of paper, every time you date a guy, you rip off a piece of that paper and give it to him, and you can never get it back. So if you date a bunch of guys when you're young, how much of your heart will be left to give to your husband? G-d bless.[/quote] GOD never wanted us to be divorced and thats is not wat breaking up is for!! its just a part of life!!!!!! you can think that if you want but its not true! im 17 and yeah i think you have a point but at the same time you need to learn more about what your saying be fore you say it!!!!!! and your heart thing you just need to take that off because the only way your giving your heart to some one is if you with them another way than just going on dates doing stuff you shouldnt be doing till your married!!!!! every has a first love it might not be true but they do! yeah also you guys should just learn that people can fall in love around 12 and 13 because a family at my church have been together sence the was 12 when they was in jr high and they are maddy in love and would do anything! if you having boyfriend problems than you should ask on here if you want and not worry what people think worry what god thinks he is the only one who has the prefect plan for you and also if i made you mad but what you said is not true GOD never wanted us to divorce our husbands but sorry i had to tell youthat Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:20<br><br>Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:22[/quote] I dated three guys in middle school. Even after I dumped two of em, I still feel emotionally connected to them as if I was still dating them. And that includes the third. I'm not happy with that, and honestly wish now that I'd never dated them. Even after you leave a guy, you can't just say, "I don't care about him anymore." At least not for me.[/quote] I agree with that. I get emotionally attached to people. It is hard to just forget you ever felt something for a guy and move on.

[b]dancingwithtomatoes42 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]cheer09 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]I've been reading some of these threads, and have to sigh yet again. The never ending argument about "I'm tired of all these young un's thinking they're in love!" and "I am too in love! Shut your pie hole!". It's true, I've had my fair share in these arguments (you can all go to my blog for proof) and now I just want to say one thing. Young people, you can go ahead and date. No one's going to stop you. You can think you're in love, and we can think you're not. But there are two things I would like you all to remember when you go out "dating": If dating is preparing you for marriage, then breaking up is preparing you for divorce. Your heart is like a piece of paper, every time you date a guy, you rip off a piece of that paper and give it to him, and you can never get it back. So if you date a bunch of guys when you're young, how much of your heart will be left to give to your husband? G-d bless.[/quote] GOD never wanted us to be divorced and thats is not wat breaking up is for!! its just a part of life!!!!!! you can think that if you want but its not true! im 17 and yeah i think you have a point but at the same time you need to learn more about what your saying be fore you say it!!!!!! and your heart thing you just need to take that off because the only way your giving your heart to some one is if you with them another way than just going on dates doing stuff you shouldnt be doing till your married!!!!! every has a first love it might not be true but they do! yeah also you guys should just learn that people can fall in love around 12 and 13 because a family at my church have been together sence the was 12 when they was in jr high and they are maddy in love and would do anything! if you having boyfriend problems than you should ask on here if you want and not worry what people think worry what god thinks he is the only one who has the prefect plan for you and also if i made you mad but what you said is not true GOD never wanted us to divorce our husbands but sorry i had to tell youthat Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:20<br><br>Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:22[/quote] I dated three guys in middle school. Even after I dumped two of em, I still feel emotionally connected to them as if I was still dating them. And that includes the third. I'm not happy with that, and honestly wish now that I'd never dated them. Even after you leave a guy, you can't just say, "I don't care about him anymore." At least not for me.[/quote] I agree with that. I get emotionally attached to people. It is hard to just forget you ever felt something for a guy and move on.[/quote] yeah but thats going to happen but that doesnt mean taht you cant just say that brake up is getting people ready for divorce because its not true and your going to be emothionally attached if you have been with some one more than just 2 or 3 weeks but if it has only been 2 or 3 weeks than something is wrong! i have had my feeling hurt and yeah i still have feelings for 4 of my ex bf but not in the same way if you know what i mean! im still friends with all my ex bf and thats where most girls go wrong they dont want anything to do with their exs and if your around them and still hang out than you get over them alot fast!!!!!! i love you guys so dont think im trying to be mean

[b]dancingwithtomatoes42 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]cheer09 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]I've been reading some of these threads, and have to sigh yet again. The never ending argument about "I'm tired of all these young un's thinking they're in love!" and "I am too in love! Shut your pie hole!". It's true, I've had my fair share in these arguments (you can all go to my blog for proof) and now I just want to say one thing. Young people, you can go ahead and date. No one's going to stop you. You can think you're in love, and we can think you're not. But there are two things I would like you all to remember when you go out "dating": If dating is preparing you for marriage, then breaking up is preparing you for divorce. Your heart is like a piece of paper, every time you date a guy, you rip off a piece of that paper and give it to him, and you can never get it back. So if you date a bunch of guys when you're young, how much of your heart will be left to give to your husband? G-d bless.[/quote] GOD never wanted us to be divorced and thats is not wat breaking up is for!! its just a part of life!!!!!! you can think that if you want but its not true! im 17 and yeah i think you have a point but at the same time you need to learn more about what your saying be fore you say it!!!!!! and your heart thing you just need to take that off because the only way your giving your heart to some one is if you with them another way than just going on dates doing stuff you shouldnt be doing till your married!!!!! every has a first love it might not be true but they do! yeah also you guys should just learn that people can fall in love around 12 and 13 because a family at my church have been together sence the was 12 when they was in jr high and they are maddy in love and would do anything! if you having boyfriend problems than you should ask on here if you want and not worry what people think worry what god thinks he is the only one who has the prefect plan for you and also if i made you mad but what you said is not true GOD never wanted us to divorce our husbands but sorry i had to tell youthat Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:20<br><br>Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:22[/quote] I dated three guys in middle school. Even after I dumped two of em, I still feel emotionally connected to them as if I was still dating them. And that includes the third. I'm not happy with that, and honestly wish now that I'd never dated them. Even after you leave a guy, you can't just say, "I don't care about him anymore." At least not for me.[/quote] I agree with that. I get emotionally attached to people. It is hard to just forget you ever felt something for a guy and move on.[/quote] What if they hurt you? Would u forget them? Would u still be attached? When a boy I had a relationship betrayed me I dumped me and sweared at me everyday till he moved. Not attached.

[b]KureaaJei wrote:[/b] [quote][b]dancingwithtomatoes42 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote][b]cheer09 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Bittersweet wrote:[/b] [quote]I've been reading some of these threads, and have to sigh yet again. The never ending argument about "I'm tired of all these young un's thinking they're in love!" and "I am too in love! Shut your pie hole!". It's true, I've had my fair share in these arguments (you can all go to my blog for proof) and now I just want to say one thing. Young people, you can go ahead and date. No one's going to stop you. You can think you're in love, and we can think you're not. But there are two things I would like you all to remember when you go out "dating": If dating is preparing you for marriage, then breaking up is preparing you for divorce. Your heart is like a piece of paper, every time you date a guy, you rip off a piece of that paper and give it to him, and you can never get it back. So if you date a bunch of guys when you're young, how much of your heart will be left to give to your husband? G-d bless.[/quote] GOD never wanted us to be divorced and thats is not wat breaking up is for!! its just a part of life!!!!!! you can think that if you want but its not true! im 17 and yeah i think you have a point but at the same time you need to learn more about what your saying be fore you say it!!!!!! and your heart thing you just need to take that off because the only way your giving your heart to some one is if you with them another way than just going on dates doing stuff you shouldnt be doing till your married!!!!! every has a first love it might not be true but they do! yeah also you guys should just learn that people can fall in love around 12 and 13 because a family at my church have been together sence the was 12 when they was in jr high and they are maddy in love and would do anything! if you having boyfriend problems than you should ask on here if you want and not worry what people think worry what god thinks he is the only one who has the prefect plan for you and also if i made you mad but what you said is not true GOD never wanted us to divorce our husbands but sorry i had to tell youthat Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:20<br><br>Post edited by: cheer09, at: 2007/08/21 01:22[/quote] I dated three guys in middle school. Even after I dumped two of em, I still feel emotionally connected to them as if I was still dating them. And that includes the third. I'm not happy with that, and honestly wish now that I'd never dated them. Even after you leave a guy, you can't just say, "I don't care about him anymore." At least not for me.[/quote] I agree with that. I get emotionally attached to people. It is hard to just forget you ever felt something for a guy and move on.[/quote] What if they hurt you? Would u forget them? Would u still be attached? When a boy I had a relationship betrayed me I dumped me and sweared at me everyday till he moved. Not attached.[/quote] Not like that. I was talking my experience, which is actually pretty minimal. I wouldnt go out with a guy like that in the first place. Guys who swear EVER are a no-no. That is so...low class.