this is what happend on my vacation and b/c of it i came back early! ok so my uncles wifes cuzin is josh so i guess he isnt related to me but c im almost 13 and he is 15 and ok so he rides w/ me to the family reunion and he hangs on to me like a dog w/ a leash and for no reason he tells me ur not my type i was like ok and he would ask me where i was going and he would ask if he could come or he would just fallow me so then ppl started to think we wer to gether and family would say ther insperable and id get mad b/c im not the one who is fallowing him hes fallowing me and he read me his peotry and one or two wer about his dream girl and he wanted me only to hear them first and he sat on my bed while i was asleep and i woke up and he ask if i wanted breakfast now do u think that he likes me what should i do he spending the night on fri and hes 15 so should i b like careful

wow, i think he seems nice, i think he likes you... just be watchful i guess.

Well, it seems he's a bit infatuated with you... Because right now, he's trying to impress you but the way he's following you around seems like its bordering on obsession... Oh well, that may or may not be the reason. But I suggest talking to someone about this boy if you're upset about how he's following you around.

i had a problem sorta like that, i was at my bff's youth group, and this boy came up to me, who i didn't know, and he would sit down and just watch me and my friend play, when we played catch he just sat down and watched us, when we were swinging on the swings, he would go underneath us, and later the next day (we spent the night at the youth group) we were swinging again. (i got to know him more by this time)i didn't feel threatened by him. when i was swinging, he kept grabbing my leg, and then he started pushing me, and started saying i was his friend and stuff. he started following me around all day! i really couldn't get rid of him, he kept asking me to play two-hand touch football with him and stuff. (thank goodness my bff called me as an excuse to get away from guys who want to talk to us) finnaly i went to the girls bath room with my friend. she said to stay away from him so i said " i donno, he seems like a nice guy" and she said he talks about porn and stuff. should i be around this guy? i don't think i feeel comfortable around him now(by the way, he is sorta mentally challenged, so i don't know if he was acting that way cus he had problems, or was a sicko) anyway to help you i can't tell you if he is a scary guy, or a nice guy. i don't think you should tell an adult unless he touches you or something, get to know him a bit, i don't think him comeing over should be a problem.

well i do kno him so idk i told u about him oh at his b-day party his friend started to like me so i dont kno so advice plzzzzzzzzzz

I'm thinking he likes you, just doesn't want you to know it 'cause he wants to pursue you. Just be careful and if he becomes anymore of a stalker and/or makes you feel uncomfortable at all, then talk to a trusted adult then to him about it.

i agree u should probably get to know him better be4 u dub him weird. i think he does have a crush on you, and that is ok. But considering 15 yr old guys nowadays i warn you be careful, it is not that they are all bad but it is probably better that you both just stay friends. i also think you should be honest with him and tell him if he is weirding you out. it will save both you and him from loads of embarrassment later. good luck, and i hope ive helped! Since he is spending the night, it would probably be better for you to keep ur bedroom door closed so he wont bother you in the middle of the night. if he suggests u both sleep in the same room, tell him you would rather not and if that is the case ask ur parents if it is ok to lock ur door.

Post edited by: emuhlee_h, at: 2007/07/10 09:34