i have a bf but we dont really talk or do anything at all and i think this guy likes me and he broke his thumb and im like really sorry he did and now i think i like him and dont really like my bf and this guy he stares at me in english and science(the 2 classes we have to gether) but we talk and he i think flirts and we sit next to each other in english and i miss him lotz like to day he left earrly and i was sad the rest of the day and i lyk realllllyyyyy lyke him and all what should i do about my bf and this guy and all the stuff i just said? plzz help! ~Tiffany~

well, idk how old you are so im not gonna get into the whole "you should wait til you are older to date" cuz with my luck you will be older than me and i will look like an idiot lol. but this does sound like a middle school problem. so, if you are thinking that you like another guy, then i think you should break up with your bf, because it isnt fair to him to be with someone who is even thinking she might like another guy, i think you should take a break with the whole bf thing until you feel mature enough to be part of a relationship and figure out what you want, cuz this whole "i have a bf, but i think i like another guy" thing isnt gonna get you anywhere in life. if you do break up with your bf, wait a while until you date again, dont dump him and then the next day get a bf, cuz that will make you look like you really dont care bout anyone. get where im going? i hope this helped :)

it did but most ppl say im grown allready because im 12 im mature and i took an sol test and my school wrote back that im mature and a smart as a person that just graduated highschool so i kno how to cook sew and i want to be in the army i can sing i want to be in american idol and i want to go to school to be both a lawyer and a math teacher then as soon as im done withh my law school and its last year of internship ends i want to runn for a state senit. then for prez i have great things in mind now do u see that i am mature and i defantly act like am not 12 most ppl take me seriously and im happy my mom laft my dad and i went with her so i grew up fast most ppl think im like 17 because the way i act and no one ever say i grew up to fast or say i should be a kid and no i wont dump then go out the next day he has to ask me and im just a kidd who is increddibly mature and is trying to get a boy that will protect me and itz not like i cant protect my self because i can lift up 210 pounds but i want some one to call mine my bf now is online so yeah oh yea i box and i lift weights i play foot ball im am me but anyway i guess u ppl gonna think im not real but i dont care if u do cause im me no matter what any one does or says! ~Tiffany~:laugh:

Well, my thoughts are don't date at all. But because I cannot judge anyone else's choices and convictions but my own, here is my advice to you: Since your current bf is an online bf, i would say break up with him and go out with the guy that you see all the time. You can get to know him better and since you both seem to like eachother, i am sure it will work. But that is just my advice. (my advice that sort of is my advice and sort of isnt but yeah...):P

I agree with MyHeartsnAfrica. But if you're twelve, this is just hormones, most likely. But either way, I'm with MyHeartsnAfrica.

My thought is, you're only twelve, give it some time....Personally, I've never been in a situation like that....Anyways, first things first, get to the point and don't babble, it confuses people, especially people like me....second, why are you and this guy "bf/gf" if you don't really like him....of course, it is just a crush stage....just be careful, and like I said, try to give it some time, I went a year without dating just to give myself time, actually, it was over a year....