Ok, so there's this guy that's one of my best friends. He's really cool, and I always have fun around him. I've realized, though, that I always feel special around him. He's different than any guy I've ever met. It's hard to sum up the way I feel. I want to tell him, but I'm afraid of what might happen. What are your thoughts on this matter?

You feel appreciated. those are my thoughts. Don't let hormones end up getting the best of you though... keep him at a best friend level for now.

Oh, trust me, there's more to it. I have been having trouble with sleep because I keep thinking about it. I just want to pour my heart out. I finally got to sleep at 1:30 this morning after writing my thoughts about him.

Have you tried pouring your heart out to God? Seeing how he feels about this all?

The Hatter is right. Keep him at best friend level. A lot less complicated.

[b]keyseya wrote:[/b] [quote]Have you tried pouring your heart out to God? Seeing how he feels about this all?[/quote] I keep asking God to tell me what to do. I'm waiting to know what to do. If this is his way of informing me, then I'll wait.

[b]Illusenfan_5000 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]keyseya wrote:[/b] [quote]Have you tried pouring your heart out to God? Seeing how he feels about this all?[/quote] I keep asking God to tell me what to do. I'm waiting to know what to do. If this is his way of informing me, then I'll wait.[/quote] The way I look at it is that you asking God to tell you what to do is working on your time, not his. An important thing when starting a relationship (and I mean right back when you first start having feelings for a guy) is to work on God's timing. When I first started having feelings for Logan I prayed about it alot, I prayed whenever I thought about him, I gave ALL of my feelings and thoughts to God (and I admit, even the embarrassing ones). In the end when the feelings wouldn't go away (and I mean after months) I asked God, "If these feelings mean something, if I'm meant to have a future with him please make these feelings stronger but if not, make them go away." I believe God was preparing me for this relationship right from the start. If you don't hear anything from God don't think thats He isn't working, He is ALWAYS working, you just may not be able to see what he is doing. Wait, keep your feelings and thoughts about this guy just between you and God.

[b]THeMadHatter wrote:[/b] [quote]You feel appreciated. those are my thoughts. Don't let hormones end up getting the best of you though... keep him at a best friend level for now.[/quote] I totally agree. y ruin a good friendship! :)

[b]keyseya wrote:[/b] [quote][b]Illusenfan_5000 wrote:[/b] [quote][b]keyseya wrote:[/b] [quote]Have you tried pouring your heart out to God? Seeing how he feels about this all?[/quote] I keep asking God to tell me what to do. I'm waiting to know what to do. If this is his way of informing me, then I'll wait.[/quote] The way I look at it is that you asking God to tell you what to do is working on your time, not his. An important thing when starting a relationship (and I mean right back when you first start having feelings for a guy) is to work on God's timing. When I first started having feelings for Logan I prayed about it alot, I prayed whenever I thought about him, I gave ALL of my feelings and thoughts to God (and I admit, even the embarrassing ones). In the end when the feelings wouldn't go away (and I mean after months) I asked God, "If these feelings mean something, if I'm meant to have a future with him please make these feelings stronger but if not, make them go away." I believe God was preparing me for this relationship right from the start. If you don't hear anything from God don't think thats He isn't working, He is ALWAYS working, you just may not be able to see what he is doing. Wait, keep your feelings and thoughts about this guy just between you and God.[/quote] You know, you're right. Thanks!

Glad I could help :)