So im going to complain a little bit... So if yall dont want to hear it then please dont read it (: lol. OK so does anyone else get really mad when guys (or just people in general) think just because you are a girl, that you dont know about certain things??!?!?!?!?! OK i'll tell yall why im soooooo aggravated, so im talking to this guy. and hes like "oh I dont eat, i just drink lots of water.... yada yada ya" and I was like, well being on the rescue squad/fire dept. and since my mom is a paramedic and i have been in the emergency field all my life, I have some knowledge in this stuff... Its very simple! You dont eat our gonna die!!!!! end of story.. It isnt smart and I dont recommend it (did i spell that right?) anyways. and it aint just him. Im so tired of people always saying "Wow, you on the fire dept? But your a girl... you must just do it for the guys.." NEGATIVE. I dont do it for the guys. I mean seriously people?! when you just want to do somehting for "the guys" you dont want to get all sweaty and dirty and nasty, you want to look your best... BEING ON THE FIRE DEPT YOU GET NASTY, HAVE BAD HAIR DAYS WHEN YOU TAKE YOUR HELMET OFF, AND GET SWEATY.... i mean hello, its common sense is it not?! and another thing. People think that becuase im a girl I dont know as much as the guys, or cant lift heavy things... NEGATIVE. I know as much, if not MORE than half the guys on the fd! and as far as the lifting thing, no I cant lift 300 pounds, but I deff aint a wimp! I can pick up my fair share of things... and just because im a girl doesnt mean im dumb! and I hate girls who are in the emergency field, and give us other girls a bad name... We have to prove ourselves on a daily basis to guys, and when some 'person' comes and acts immature and does things they aint supposed to, it automatically deducts points for those who are actually doing the profession for other reasons... (not just for the guys and to say they are on the rescue/fire/police dept.) ANYWAYS. So I think im done (: lol. I hope this made since... because I was just sort of angerly typing.. so sorry for any typos.. LOL. Im done (:

Hehe, yup! I think when people say things like thats just when you should prove them wrong but not in a selfish way. How about thinking of it this way, instead of proving yourself to them, show God what you can do and give thanks to Him. It sounds like you do good stuff in the fire department, keep it up and keep going strong! :)

Thanks (: But what do you mean not to prove them wrong in a selfish way? Do you think im being selfish?

No, I don't think you're being selfish. Its kinda hard to explain, lemme think about the best way to explain it :)

lol. Ok.