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frogbellynumbr12
18 year(s) ago

ok so I HAD A BOY FRIEND AND THEN 2 MORE THEN I LKED THE 1ST ONE THE BEST SO NOW IM BACK IN TO THE SAME SECHIEATION NOW HE WANTS TO BE FRIENDS AND I DONT I WANT A RELATION SHIP AND I JUST NEED HELP WITH GUYS AND I NEED HELP WITH DATEIN IS IT WRONG TO ASK A GUY OUT OR CAN 12 YEAR OLDS GO OUT ON A REAL DATE I KNO BUT IM ALL MOST 13 AND MY MOM TOLD ME I COULD DATE BIG MISTAKE IM ALL CON FUSED ALL RIGHT I NEED HELP CAN ANY ONE HELP ME?

just-me-silly
18 year(s) ago

well umm... personally i think 13 is to young im 15 and i think im to young to date i think you should try to have a close friendship with him at my church theres this guy that really likes me but i didnt want to date him ( i was 13 at the time) we've been amazing friends for almost 2 years and since we've never dated each other church isnt awkward for us to go to the same church. were able to have a close friendship and an even clser friendship with God hope i helped

Cheecha
18 year(s) ago

I don't think 13 is too young, even though we are young, we can truly understand how love feel,but i agree wit you, be friends with him first then once you really get to know him, ask him out, or wait for him to ask you

frogbellynumbr12
18 year(s) ago

YEAH THE PROBLEM IS I HAVE BEEN FRIENDS W/ HIM FOR A LONG TIME AND WE LIKE EACH OTHER SO MUCH BUT HE DOSE WANNT ME TO BREAK UP W/ HIM LIKE LAST TIME AND SO SO SAD I TOLD HIM THAT I WOULDNT BREAK UP W/ HIM AGAIN AND HE SAID THAT HE WOULDNT EATHER SO WAT TO DO ?

Cheecha
18 year(s) ago

yeah, if he wants you to break up with him, (i really don't understand shy HE wouldn't just do it) just do it, by refusing to, its not gonna stop anything,why won't he break up with you though?

frogbellynumbr12
18 year(s) ago

he doesnt wana hurt me and he told me he loved me so idk? butsee were not tectnicly goin out because he doesnt wanna get hurt if i break up w/ him again so he said that goin to be bf and gf next year of school i dont kno what to do ?

frogbellynumbr12
18 year(s) ago

about the breakin up we agreed that if one wants to break up then the other has to agree too like a divorce yeah its weird but we both want a serious relation ship and the reson y he broke up w/ his last gf is they didnt see each other and i told him we can go out sometimes

frogbellynumbr12
18 year(s) ago

i still need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!and now al these otherppl think im going out with this other guy because we didnt efishily breakup because it was a joke and now ppl think were to gether and were not so now i have to guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -Tiffany-

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