Ok last wk i went to my skool dance and i danced with this really nice guy adn he asked me out and i said yea so we went out for 4 days then he broke up with me for his old gf and then the rest of the wk he kept saying "i like u so much and i wanna go back out with u" but he wouldnt break up with his gf!!! but now he just wants to be frends and i dont like him anymore but he kept flirting with me AND my frend!!

... kick him in the shins and run away screaming "eww!!! immature- hormone-filled- idiot!" ... ok fine dont kick him but still, explain to him that you're looking for something thats going to last because you dont want to be messed around with. Then we all know he'll say "but it will last, i love you ____!" (<--insert pet name here, like Babe, hon, ect) So you can then tell him that if it were true, he would have been able to prove that one a long time ago.

ok so me and one of my really good friends *JULIA* have a friend and he was all like i like you a lot will you go out with me? to julia and she said no cause that would ruin their relationship as friends and then he was all like thanks alot. so she was like"well i thought we were good friends and you would understand but i guess not" so he was like "ahhhh im sorry...please forgive me". Then he sends me a message saying that he has liked me since 4th grade when we met. And then he asked me out and so i told him i dont like him that way and that it would ruin our relationship. so he was like "thanks a lot thats the 2nd time ive gotten turned down today" and i was like ok then guess we arent as close as i thought. so he was like sorry so i forgave him. then i started talking to julia and we started talking about him and we found out that he said the exact same thing to us!`haha we were like ohhhh playa!!! haha

yeeah like the guy garrison sidney *supahsid* was talking about he was txting me the other nite. i call everyone babe and baby and hun and sweethart and pet names like that. well i said thanks babe and he was like wat? and i said o nvm srry i didnt mean to put that! and he said i love you and i said i love you to AS A FRIEND!(just in caps like that) well he said okay well then he said will u go out wit me, while going out wit rainey, about to go out wit sidney, trying to go out wit me to! i said srry i have a bf and i freakin love him to death! he was like screw drew (*drew* my bf) and i said no and he wouldnt stop saying lets make out i love you and all that stuff and i was like no i have a bf and i freakin love him to death! but he was like i dont love her anymore, and i was like go love sidney and he was talking about earlier like 3 days ago how he loved them so much! he said i dont love her anymore and i said well wat happens when u dont love me anymore! and he said i love you so much tho and i said w/e dont talk to me! i was like go be a playa wit some other girls! and he was like well i dont wanna go out wit a unsweet ugly girl like u then! and i was like u just said u love me idiot! and he said i lied! my point exactly! hehehe! playas these days! hehehe!

[b]Supah_Sid wrote:[/b] [quote]Ok last wk i went to my skool dance and i danced with this really nice guy adn he asked me out and i said yea so we went out for 4 days then he broke up with me for his old gf and then the rest of the wk he kept saying "i like u so much and i wanna go back out with u" but he wouldnt break up with his gf!!! but now he just wants to be frends and i dont like him anymore but he kept flirting with me AND my frend!![/quote] That's what you call "Mr. Jerk O Matic!" One of my friends has done this series before called Datewise (it deals with dating violence), and if the guy is violent, he will continue being like that to you no matter what. If you put it in the perspective of your ex-boyfriend being a player, then if he is a player once to you and you go back out with him/continue to associate with him, then he will keep doing player things too you. Since he is a player, he will more than likely do it to more girls too, besides you. Distance yourself from him the best that you can and firmly tell him that what he did was unacceptable and you do not want to have anything to do with him anymore! If he keeps bugging you about it, then go to a staff member at school or another trusted adult for help.