[color=#800080][/color] hey, please help! my bff has been depressed & crys a lot. i'm worried about her. i went to th counseler. i told my friend. she doesn't like it that i did that. every time she sees me, she glares and yells. i'm afriad that she hurt herself. she's did it b4! help! sign my board on my webpage!

hey i had a friend just like the one you say you have. she completely shut me out of her life for telling her that she needed help and that God didn't intend for her to be so hard on herself. This friend of mine hadn't gotten in with the wrong crowd and was doing alot of things that she now regets, i think that you should just tell your friend that you love her and that is why you wanted help, so that she wanted hurt herself or even worse. the girl and i are now closer friends then we ever have been, and she now knows that i wasn't trying to tell her what to do, or yell at her, but she reliezes i was just trying to help!

Hi! I agree. Just give her a call or make her a pretty card and just tell her that you did what you did because you care about her and dont want to see her get hurt. Pray that the situation will be resolved and that God would prepare her heart for the truth. Hope this helps!! Your Sis in Christ, Kristie:)

this is kinda tough, but you can't help a person who doesn't want help. she may want help, but doesn't know how to express it. the one thing that you can do is pray for her and that she will come to you when she needs help. the whole guidance councelor thing is something that you and her need to work out in a godly manner.... prayer helps A LOT!! God Bless

first i'd pray. then i would go to her at skool or somthing and talk to her. maybe something really tragic happened to her and does not no how to deal with it and is afraid to say anything to other ppl. i'd just go up to her and ask her how she id then tell her y u told the counceler. then i'd tell her that i was worried 4 her and try to get her to open up to a counceler or something. good luck with this one it is pretty tough. p.s. any1 who want to can add me to there buddy list!!!!!!!;)

first i'd pray. then i would go to her at skool or somthing and talk to her. maybe something really tragic happened to her and does not no how to deal with it and is afraid to say anything to other ppl. i'd just go up to her and ask her how she id then tell her y u told the counceler. then i'd tell her that i was worried 4 her and try to get her to open up to a counceler or something. good luck with this one it is pretty tough. p.s. any1 who want to can add me to there buddy list!!!!!!!;)

ok my best friends mom died last year and she always crys in church and other places and she gets so mad and know her dad is getting married and my best friend is so mad cause if your mom died you would cry right but know her soon to be step mom is saying you need consoling and she does not like her step mom and at Christmas her dad through all her moms stuff away her dish's and her ordment that said are first christmas together and her stalking and all the pic of her mom and through them all away cause the step mom has kids and they have no pic of there dad cause the step mom got devorst and know is marring my best friends dad help i dont know how to help her she needs it i tryed doing every thing

The best thing I can say is pray God hears and knows what your need is in time she will thank you for making her relize that she has a problem