ok so there is this guy that i have known for about a year this december, i met him at youthgroup and at first i didn't even notice him until my friend told me that this kid wanted to hook up with me. so the guy wrote me notes and bought me stuff. and now i keep having mixed emotions about this whole thing, so ok he is a nice guy but can be a real jerk too, he buys me flowers, expensive necklaces, stuffed animals and chocolates and stuff like that, he writes me notes telling me how much i mean to him and how he likes me for being me and we talked on the phone alot and then when he is arround his friends he is a jerk, he huggs on my best friend and tells her he loves her and he tries to get me jealouse over everything like that until he found out that makeing me jealouse over my best friend wasn't working cuz i would never be jealouse of her kuz i know she wouldn't do anything with him so then he started telling me that this girl in school liked him and how she wrote him a note and how i never do that and how he was going with her to his prom, and then when he wasn't with his friends he would act really nice, so i invited him to my semi and my other friend invited some one else from yg but then we couldn't go cuz they weren't in my school so we went bowling and out to dinner in our semi dresses and the guys wore suites so when we were on this date, the guys were really nice, they split the bill for dinner and offered to buy us anythind we wanted when we were bowling, and now the thing is, my mom thinks this guy is soooooooo good for me and when i'm 16 this is the one i am going to date and i don't want that, or at least i don't think i want it and my friends tell me that i am too good for him but i don't want to hurt him so if you can understand everything on this page, can u please help me on what i should do?? ~*Kim*~