Me and my best friend, we have been best friends for a long long time. We told eachother everything, we hung out all the time, we were like as close as close can get. We considered eachother as sisters, and even other people thought we were sisters because we were so incredibly close. Just recently, i found out that most everything she has shared with me in the past year were all lies. I found out she had been looking at porn, lying to me, talking mean about me behind my back, cutting, and that she was suicidal, and basically getting into very very dangerous situations. so i told my mom, and we agreed that we should talk to their pastor and then her mother. we did, and she wasnt supposed to know that i was the one who told on her, but somehow she did. Now she is talking even worse behind my back and most ppl dont know who to trust. she tells them all lies and most of them believe her because they dont know her that well. She refuses to email me, and i am kinda afraid to call her because of how angry she is. I dont really know what to do. i have prayed and talked with God about it, but i am still confused. I am so sad. it feels like i have been stabbed. i cry about it practically everytime i think about it. it hurts me so bad. :( . like i really dont have some1 i can talk to about everything that goes on in my life. I mean, i have one close friend but he is a guy and i cant talk with him about everything. (though if he wasnt in my life at this time, i dont know how i would survive, with no one to talk to) So if anyone has any ideas, i have already apologized to her numerous times for hurting her feelings and/or offending her, but she doesnt listen. Some1 please help!!!:unsure: ~Jaryd~

I know where ur coming from! I had a best friend(I thought she was) who would smile in my face and we told each other secrets! I then found out she was telling ppl behind my back and lying on me!!!! I say all this 2 say, next time u get involved with a so-called friend, don't be quick 2 tell them everything, the TRUST MUST GROW! I had2 learn that the hard way, and also it's not enough 2 ask God 2 help u!!! BE honest with him, and open up and if u've already done that, listen 2 his voice, u'll hear it if u're in a quiet place!!!!! I'll pray 4 u if u need it, chances r as much as u may be "best friends", she's not she's just using, u as I later found otu! Hope this helps and God BLESS!:lol: :) :)

[b]leader4christ wrote:[/b] [quote]I know where ur coming from! I had a best friend(I thought she was) who would smile in my face and we told each other secrets! I then found out she was telling ppl behind my back and lying on me!!!! I say all this 2 say, next time u get involved with a so-called friend, don't be quick 2 tell them everything, the TRUST MUST GROW! I had2 learn that the hard way, and also it's not enough 2 ask God 2 help u!!! BE honest with him, and open up and if u've already done that, listen 2 his voice, u'll hear it if u're in a quiet place!!!!! I'll pray 4 u if u need it, chances r as much as u may be "best friends", she's not she's just using, u as I later found otu! Hope this helps and God BLESS!:lol: :) :)[/quote] Well, we really were best friends for a long while but this past year, her mom got re married, so i think that may have something to do with the way she has been acting. We trusted eachother with everything and hung out all the time a while ago, but then something changed in her. It started with a dangerous boyfriend then spiraled to her thinking that God wasnt real and then she opened herself up to demonic things, and then finally porn. Oh and when i said i asked the Lord to help me, i meant that i have talked to Him and listened to Him. I journalled it all so i can look back at it too! It was very encouraging. it is just nice to know that when you are going thru rough times other people are praying for you too. especially since i still feel upset about it, i still cry, i still feel the way i am feeling, and i dont want her to get hurt anymore by any1 else, especially me. thats why i posted on here. i figured someone would pray for me and i knew people would listen to me. (i am sorry if something i say doesnt make much sense, when i am emotional, i know what i am trying to say in my head, but sometimes the words i write arent exactly the same) So yeah, thank you all for praying and for the advice! I truely appreciate it! It means alot to me! I will update this if anything new happens. Thanks again!

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