[b]jamiebrooke wrote:[/b] [quote]oaky so im a girl..... but i read in a book that u shouldnt do anything that u couldnt do in front of ur father........lol.....that slims it down doesnt it! [/quote] or anything that your parents would downright disapprove of

my boundarys are pretty much anything that causes me to have sinful thoughts or what my parents wouldnt want me to do or if i just feel guilty about it or if it causes me to look at my girl as an object for my pleasure, all of that added to what my girls boundarys are. after we have those boundarys, we just stay as far away from the edge as we can. its very important to make sure that you know your partners boundarys,(and they know yours) because sometimes they can be to shy to say something about it, which would be causing them to sin if they were going along with it and felt it was wrong.

Post edited by: Swinny89, at: 2006/12/18 21:18

[b]srose26 wrote:[/b] [quote]wow...this is a question that we all see differently...what might turn one guy on might be holding hands...but a different guy might be able to make out and have no problem stopping before it gos to far...I feel that in a relationship a guy and girl should talk about what is OK and not...and keep it there... That is the answer I would give face to face...but I would add to it too...well how is hanging all over a person, making out, spooning and so on uplifting God...to me it's not...you and the other person are just seeking to live in the world by acting like that world in a dating relationships...always keep purity of heart and mind and a guy that is making out and mess around with a grill will not be able to keep a pure mind when they are alone (sorry I know you guys on here will not agree with me but it is true...stop lying to yourself)...[/quote] amen to this I agree which is why another good idea is to never be alone because much short from some sort of natral disaster or something like that you can help being alone but anyway I think the whole thing about doing anything you wouldn't want your futer wife doing the thing is your g/f or b/f isn't married to anyone yet and hopefully not dating anyone else so I'd say its better to think would I do this if Jesus were present or will I be tempted if I go this far and anything like making out is pretty much pointless and asking for temptation I mean I understand a Kiss every now and then if you won't be tempted by it but making out is pretty much pointless. And anything beyond that is pretty much too