Today when i went to get my schedule and stuff, i saw one of my best friends, Evan, there and we hugged and everything felt perfect...we both really like each other, but I have a boyfriend, but I never felt that way when me and my boyfriend hugged. I know some of ya'll will say that i'm too young to have a boyfriend, but frankly, i dont care (im sorry if that offends you...). I just want to know who i should be with...the guy who might be a little rough aroud the edges but still loves me, or the best friend who makes everything perfect no matter how horrible my day was...

Why bother? You're right, you ARE too young. Wait another three or so years until you see how both guys grow and mature. Who knows? Maybe the answer will be clearer then.

Why go with either if even you are aware that you may be too young? either one will end. So if you absolutely have to give into culture pressure and hormones and chose one, then consider this: which can you stand to lose? Whichever one you can risk later on down the road, then that's the one you should hold to the fire. Unfortunately, guys and girls can't just "be awesome friends" after a relationship as much as they were before. it takes many many years. I had a relationship in middle school that wasn't healed as a brother/sister friendship until the second semester of my senior year. That's another reason why it is so dangerouse to play the dating game in younger years. You set up your reputation with every guy you date, and how/ why it ends. you could have great brothers who will keep you strong throughout the years, but that chance may be cut short when you start dating them. His friends also treat you differently, even if they're your friends too. ^[/opinionthoughtthing]

Well said, Chelsea!

[b]THeMadHatter wrote:[/b] [quote]Why go with either if even you are aware that you may be too young? either one will end. So if you absolutely have to give into culture pressure and hormones and chose one, then consider this: which can you stand to lose? Whichever one you can risk later on down the road, then that's the one you should hold to the fire. Unfortunately, guys and girls can't just "be awesome friends" after a relationship as much as they were before. it takes many many years. I had a relationship in middle school that wasn't healed as a brother/sister friendship until the second semester of my senior year. That's another reason why it is so dangerouse to play the dating game in younger years. You set up your reputation with every guy you date, and how/ why it ends. you could have great brothers who will keep you strong throughout the years, but that chance may be cut short when you start dating them. His friends also treat you differently, even if they're your friends too. ^[/opinionthoughtthing][/quote] QFT

Honestly, you DO NOT want to date your friend for a few reasons. Trust me, I just went through this and it is awful! 1. If you break up, it ruins your friendship. There is no going back to the way things were. 2. It makes a division between your group and friends and forces them to chose sides. 3. The rush of feelings might be because he is a cutie and not because you have anything in common/you actually could have a worthwhile, lasting relationship.

[b]dancingwithtomatoes42 wrote:[/b] [quote]Honestly, you DO NOT want to date your friend for a few reasons. Trust me, I just went through this and it is awful! 1. If you break up, it ruins your friendship. There is no going back to the way things were. 2. It makes a division between your group and friends and forces them to chose sides. 3. The rush of feelings might be because he is a cutie and not because you have anything in common/you actually could have a worthwhile, lasting relationship.[/quote] actually we have dated before and now we are better friends than we were before we dated. And most of my friends aren't his friend, they think he is just weird...