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Really confusing! but hopefully you can help!

pinkeegirl

17 year(s) ago

Ok, I'm even confused but i think i understand better: My friends (Adriana and Sarah) have been off and on lately, and 2 weeks ago Adriana went on a cruise and met new people (including a boy but thts not really important but whatev) then she texted my other 2 friends (Brooke and Savana) telling them that "she found new best friends." When she got back to school we were all "pissed off" (to be blunt) at her. So Me, Savana, Sarah, and my two other friends (Jesss and Ashley) went to the counselors (Adriana didnt want to go). And basically she told us just to cool off then talk to her. Anyway, Today Sarah Told me to meet her at the counselors office (we were still confused and p.o.ed) so when I got there, Adriana, Ashley, Brooke, Savana, Jesss, and Sarah were there all talking. So when I walked up Adriana asked me if I had the text, and since I never received the text I said No (duh) Then she said back to me "If you dont have evidence then stop spreading rumors about me!" So therefore i was very confused. And at lunch we talked to the counselor again (b/c she wasnt there in the morning) and this time it was just Me, Sarah, Adriana, Jesss, and Savana. The counselor told me, Savana, and Jesss to stay out of it b/c it was manly about Sarah and Adriana. But thts going to be hard cuz she dragged me into (she as in Adriana) But then she asked if I was still p.o.ed and i said yes and she was like why and i said b/c a) she said I was desperate 4 attention (earlier the day b4) and 2) she said tht I started a rumor about her. So i'm confused but if any1 has any advice plz feel free to post!:)

Twig401

17 year(s) ago

very confusing =[

alex-loves-cookie

17 year(s) ago

hmm... i think I'd just take the counselor's advice. you stay out of it. tell the people who actually got the text to show it to the counselor. sooner or later adriana (or the one who went on the cruise) will realize she's probably never going to see the cruise friends again, and how boring lunch is without her "cruise bff's" and you guys. she'll come to her sense eventually. and when she does don't start the whole "no because you were a jerk so I don't forgive you and blah blah blah" junk. Take her in, forgive her, and forget about it. Forgive, forget, and forgive again. Little fights will happen in the future, so take the Bible's advice, and forgive continually. Hope I helped. :) -Alex

courtneylaine

17 year(s) ago

Stay out of the middle. God wants us to be friends! Just don't interfere.. it will, in the end, make you loose more friends. Just cool off, ask her why she is MAD at you. Tell her why you are MAD and then settle it, calmly. if needed, go to the guidance teacher and have her intervene. Just have her listen as you work it out in a CALM manner. Then stay out of it. Psalms 34 (i believe) I will bless the Lord at all times. Love in Christ & Faith, Courtney:woohoo:

keyseya

17 year(s) ago

Sounds like talking to the counselor was a good idea. Try and folloe their advice. Also, pray about it, seek God's advice about it :)

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