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XSabrinaXSunshineX

16 year(s) ago

everyone i know is dating.No guy seems to like me :( I personally like myself,So i dont see why other guys dont.I have confidens,i have a funlovin personality,and i think im sorta pretty.But guys just dont seem to like me :( any ideas why??

THeMadHatter

16 year(s) ago

Because they are 12 year old guys. Girly, I'm going to say this once, so pay attention to it. There is NOTHING wrong with you at all. Nothing at all. Your confidence in yourself is amazing, keep it. Many girls unfortuantely lose it at this age, but enough of that, let me explain the 12 year old relationship. At that age, hormones are parading through the body like little rampant elephants. Those who like someone today will likely find someone else next week/month, heck, maybe even tomorrow. I've watched it happen. Nothing lasts at that age, because frankly, no one with the dreaded elephants knows what they really want. Don't worry too much about the dating thing. Your friends who are dating now may not be tomorrow, and vice versa. The best advice i can give you with a relationship: work on building a friendship first with anyone. It will last MUCH longer in the long run, and you never know which of those friends will end up being the best relationship you have in the future.

NinjaUnicorn

16 year(s) ago

^ Ditto. I am a freshman in High School. Most of my friends are 14 and 15 years old, and still can't hold a relationship. Heck, I have some friends that are seniors and can't hold a relationship. And I'll tell you right now, having guys liking you isn't all that fun all the time. I have several *cough* stalkers (:P) that won't leave me alone. The other day, I was walking through the cafeteria and a guy looks at me and has the nerve to yell "Hey sexy!" Let's just say that I threatened to remove his eyes with spoons. And that's only the surface. The other night, I had to turn down my best guy friend ever. He asked me out, and as much as I wanted to say yes, I said no because I just know that it'd screw things up. Trust me on this, once guys start liking you, things get complicated. End of story. I'm glad you have self confidence. That was definitely something I DID NOT have when I was 12. And about your friends-- Don't worry about it. I'd say that 98% of them that are in relationships feel awkward, and that's not a fun feeling. :P

XSabrinaXSunshineX

16 year(s) ago

ok thanks.I do have some good guy freinds,so i guess ill just wait till that someone comes along :)

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