Ok, my bf and I have been together for a few months now.... we're really into each other but my parents and his grandparents aren't so fond of the idea.... we've not been able to tell anyone that we know personally about it, we both have to hide our emails, talk through IM, we never see each other, and my mom actually wants one of my good friends to ask me out, any advice would be helpful....

Post edited by: holyfire2010, at: 2007/06/28 11:22

hmm, ty, and I don't plan on dying or killing myself, and I don't think he does either, but, no1 but my friend Jessica knows, so yeah....

thats cool, i know one of my friends, doing the same thing. it is really hard to do, but talk to an older womanly figure in your life about it, don't tell her yet, but say stuff like " i really like him, i really wanna date him" or something like that. everything worked out for my friend when she did that. id write more but my battery is dying. see ya.

that was cool. right when ipressed subnit, my battery shut off. :laugh:

[b]Cheecha wrote:[/b] [quote]thats cool, i know one of my friends, doing the same thing. it is really hard to do, but talk to an older womanly figure in your life about it, don't tell her yet, but say stuff like " i really like him, i really wanna date him" or something like that. everything worked out for my friend when she did that. id write more but my battery is dying. see ya.[/quote] [b]Cheecha wrote:[/b] [quote]that was cool. right when ipressed subnit, my battery shut off. :laugh: [/quote] I really do wanna tell someone, but the thing is, when and how we frist met, things weren't too pleasent....the thing is, we met over the internet, and he's wiccan....but, he knows enough to respect me and the way I feel about things....once when my mom found out we had been talking, I had to get rid of all his emails....and I know I'm only15 and he's 17, but I think we both know that we're supposed to be together, it's really weird....either way, thank you.... :P lol, that's funny, kinda awesome too....

okay, it sounds like, you need to be careful, you have NO IDEA who this guy is, he may be some kind of rapist for all you know, very unwise. I kinda agree with your parents on this one. You never should internet date, in my opinion, you need to meet the guy in person.

[b]Cheecha wrote:[/b] [quote]okay, it sounds like, you need to be careful, you have NO IDEA who this guy is, he may be some kind of rapist for all you know, very unwise. I kinda agree with your parents on this one. You never should internet date, in my opinion, you need to meet the guy in person.[/quote] I've fully considered that, but I'm pretty positive that he isn't because, for the most part, he would've tried to set up a date to meet, and he and I both agree that we will meet sometime, don't know when, but somehow, somewhere, we will....And, I'm being fully careful, I'm not retarded....