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Serious Friend Problems!

pinkeegirl

17 year(s) ago

Ok, this is about two friends/former friends Sarah: She lies all the time, and they aren't just little white lies like i lost my homework when really she just didn't do it, they are HUGE lies like she has cancer (not kidding). She told us she had cancer, her dad was going to take her off her medicine (she has hypothyroid) and her dad said he didnt car if she died. Help! Hannah: This is the worst one! Since 5th grade she has been getting mad at me about once a week. This time, it's horrible! I was messaging her on Facebook and I asked her why she was mad at me, then she sent back because your bein a word i'd rather not repeat (but she did say the word). So then i asked her what i did to make her think that and she said that I always say "I'm awesome and gorgeous and you're just not as gorgeous as me" (a total lie). So I sent back What? I said that? and she sent Yeah, you said it EVERY DAY ALLDAY and still do, you would think with that many people getting pissed (sorry, quoting her) off at you you would learn, so then i sent how would you know if i say that if you're not talking to me. So she sent Because all of my friends are still kindof your friends and they tell me they hate it when you say that! Then Later she messaged me and said, Why was I invited to the Halloween party and you weren't? This message had the subject title, lol. So i sent back, Chantal's? I was, but i couldn't go and I told her that, you can ask her! I know! It's confusing, and a very long conversation, but try your hardest to gove me advice! Especially (sp?) on Hannah!

meownip

17 year(s) ago

"Hannah: This is the worst one! Since 5th grade she has been getting mad at me about once a week. " My friend used to do taht with me too. last year i just said straight to her that i was sick of her being mad at me for barely anything or for no reason at all. Then she got mad at me.:S but she isnt my friend anymore and i dont want her to be my friend. i have better people to encourage and support me htrough life now. i say just tell her how you feel. if she doesnt understand how ur feeling, then accept that you might not want to be her friend anymore and you just dont get along. Sarah: She lies all the time, and they aren't just little white lies like i lost my homework when really she just didn't do it, they are HUGE lies like she has cancer (not kidding). She told us she had cancer, her dad was going to take her off her medicine (she has hypothyroid) and her dad said he didnt car if she died. Help! also a current friend of mine does the same thing. Once when me and my other friends(who r also her friends) asked her why she missed school. She told us, (her exact words) that she jumped off of a bridge in to the river. (and came to school the next day!?:S ) On another day she was absent again and when we asked her why she said she jumped out in front of a car(and yes, we asked her if it was parked). the best you can so for Sarah right now is pray, and ask God for influence and guidence. remember, my inbox is always open if you wanna talk about anything:)

meownip

17 year(s) ago

Darrah, you shouldnt say that they arent a real friend, sure you maay have a bit of information, but you dont know the person. pinkee is the one who can decide who her real friends are

meownip

17 year(s) ago

but you still dont know what kind of situation they are in, thus making it worng for you to tell them that thier friends arent real. You dont see me going around telling you that just because your friend and you are having an arguemnt that they arent a true friend

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