ok i like this guy,(8 grader)and im a 6 grader and i think he likes me but my mom thinks that where doin sumethin bad.but hes just my freind!and now i cant hang out with him.ideos???

i would try to explain to ur mom on why you should be able to hang out with him

i tryed that she doesnt listen (im the same person diff account)

you might want to try keeping in touch with him maybe if you keep persisting on ur mom with the subject she will get sick of you and finnally let you hang out with him

No, meow, you don't go behind your paren'ts backs. Show your mom you're grown up enough to obey what she wants you to, and she'll give you more freedoms. If the guy is meant for you, he'll understand and he'll wait and do the same.

How about asking your mum if you can hang out with him when either her or someone she trusts can keep an eye on you so to say? If she doesn't believe you then you will have to earn her trust so she does.

[b]THeMadHatter wrote:[/b] [quote]No, meow, you don't go behind your paren'ts backs. Show your mom you're grown up enough to obey what she wants you to, and she'll give you more freedoms. If the guy is meant for you, he'll understand and he'll wait and do the same.[/quote] i wasnt saying to go behind thier backs, that didnt come out right. i meant to like, tell him that you cant talk to him but make sure that he knows you still wanna be his friend and that you dont hate him or anything

i would tell ur mom that ur just friends if ur a sixth grader she shouldnt be thinking ur doing something bad...talk to her about say "mom im in the 6th grade i wouldnt be doing anything bad like that..its gross" or something like that

yeah, thats a good idea

Have you done something for her not to trust you? Definitely don't go behind your parents' back cause that will just create more issues. I've gone behind my parents' back before and it didn't turn out well. I was grounded and they didn't trust me anymore. That was a few years ago, when I was in like 5th grade. I was at a friend's house and that's where I was supposed to stay, but I didn't. I'm telling you, just talk it out with her, tell her that you're not into this guy like that and that you two are just friends, ask her to give you a chance, maybe invite him over for a movie and have your parents watch it with you. You'll figure it out. :) I know you will.