No offense to witness, but you don't have to be ready for marriage, to go out with someone. Have some fun. I know it's not all fun and games, but it's not so serious that you can't have fun. It also dosen't matter if you call each other boyfriend and girlfriend, it just matters what you do in the relationship. But marriage is serious. Kissing, on the other hand, well you just need to feel something for that person. Just don't go around kissing every person you see. Again No offense to witness. Also it dose matter who you date because if you don't like them, it's not nice to lead someone on. Love, Allie