i don,t know if any of ya'll have ever felt this way, but i need some advice. i have been dating this guy for a month(which so far is my longest relationship) and i really like him. but i have recently been around my ex and i feel those feelings i had for him coming back. i am not sure if they are just the memories or not. i am still friends with him and everything, but i feel really guilty about it. kinda like i'm not being faithful to my guy. i have prayed about my current relationship, and asked god that if my recent boyfriend is what he has for me right now to give me peace about it and let know. i believe this is just satan toying with my emotions, but i just need some advice from a sister.please help me.

Well, stuff like this has happened to me too, except, well... The few relationships I had, I almost always ended because of this sick feeling I got when I thought about my boyfriend. My last boyfriend, I had already been toying around with the idea of breaking off the "relationship" before I met this new guy. When I met him (the new guy) I felt so guilty about my behavior, I chose to leave my boyfriend of the time and never date until I was 17. By then, I pray I will be more emotionally stable for a relationship, if G-d so chooses to put me into one. This may be the answer you need, but it may not. I cannot tell you what it is about your ex that you feel attracted to; whether it be the memories you two shared or if you honestly are still attracted. It is up to you to figure that out. Even then, I would recommend taking a break from your relationships (explain to your current boyfriend that some things have come up, and you're not sure that a relationship is what you need right now. [I hope this is the right thing to say to a boyfriend]) I pray everything works out for you.

the problem is that i have thought about taking a break. but every time i consider breaking up with my bf i get really sad bc i really don't want to. i would feel empty and somewhat lost without him.