so i had this guy friend and he really liked me and i really lked him but hes one of those guys that NEVER ask girls out..well i really like him for about 6 months and then i decided it was taking him to long so i got over him ..about two weeks later he asked me out through a mutual friend and i told her to tell him no b/c it took him to long and he KNEW that i liked him for a long time and now its about 2 months later and he didnt get over me till about two weeks ago when he started going out with one of my bestfriends and im not jelous but i meanthey don't seem right together at all and now she has starting acting like im not her friend anymore and he doesnt talk to me and im confused i don't want him back but then again i also don't want her to be with him either..

All you can really do is pull her aside sometime and talk to her about how you feel. I mean, it's a lot easier said than done, but that's all you can do, then stand back and let her make her own mistakes. You can't make decisions for her, you know? No matter how awful she treats you, turn the other cheek and if she wants to come running back and is truly sorry for the way she acted... let her. She'll appreciate it so much, if not now, then later on in life. You never know how actions that show you care affect people. It's amazing...

i coulndt have said it better myself!!! i think that is the best way to go about it!!! there is really nothing else you can do... if she is really your friend, she will understand where u r coming from... she doesnt nesicarilly have to agree, but... well ya:silly: