I mean it's just not the fact that she found a boyfriend, she annoyed the crap out of me and my friends bragging about it! One person was baptized; her boyfriend went up to the girl (who was re-baptized) and said: "How does it feel to be clean again?" in a very snobby way. Now if I'm not mistaken, there's a difference between mean and annoying; but, she's both combined!

*sigh* Okay... Throughout life, we are all going to come across people that annoy us and from time to time, are mean to us. It's just a part of life and we can't help that. Perfect example: There are these three girls that I go to school with that annoy the living crap out of me. One day, they just decided to call me "stupid skank". I calmly asked why they had these feelings about me and they replied "Well, it's the way you dress and the people you hang out with. Stupid rich kid." Then, I calmly explained that I never claimed to be any of the things they listed, and that the only label I want throughout life is "Christian". From that day foreward, they started making fun of the fact that I'm a Christian. Having someone making fun of your beliefs is the worst. There were points where I would have one or the other backed up against a wall ready to beat the living crap out of them, but I stood back and took a look at myself. Then I asked, "Is this how a Christian acts?" No. It wasn't. I spent many of my nights praying. I wanted self control. I wanted to be able to ignore these girls. After a while, I was able to ignore them easily. After I started ignoring them, they stopped commenting on me. It's all about keeping God involved. Pray about it. Pray that he can help you forget about the girl and take that annoying feeling away from you. I know it may be hard, but the Bible says that we should love our enemies. Although it may seem nearly impossible, it's possible. Trust me. I've been through it a lot. PM me if you need to.

[b]NinjaUnicorn wrote:[/b] [quote]*sigh* Okay... Throughout life, we are all going to come across people that annoy us and from time to time, are mean to us. It's just a part of life and we can't help that. Perfect example: There are these three girls that I go to school with that annoy the living crap out of me. One day, they just decided to call me "stupid skank". I calmly asked why they had these feelings about me and they replied "Well, it's the way you dress and the people you hang out with. Stupid rich kid." Then, I calmly explained that I never claimed to be any of the things they listed, and that the only label I want throughout life is "Christian". From that day foreward, they started making fun of the fact that I'm a Christian. Having someone making fun of your beliefs is the worst. There were points where I would have one or the other backed up against a wall ready to beat the living crap out of them, but I stood back and took a look at myself. Then I asked, "Is this how a Christian acts?" No. It wasn't. I spent many of my nights praying. I wanted self control. I wanted to be able to ignore these girls. After a while, I was able to ignore them easily. After I started ignoring them, they stopped commenting on me. It's all about keeping God involved. Pray about it. Pray that he can help you forget about the girl and take that annoying feeling away from you. I know it may be hard, but the Bible says that we should love our enemies. Although it may seem nearly impossible, it's possible. Trust me. I've been through it a lot. PM me if you need to.[/quote] QFT

Thanks.

QFT??

QFT- Quoted For Truth

Right! thanks :blush:

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Yes I have delayed sorry, I had no idea this thread was even in existence. What I would do, I would forget about her. By the way she sounds she doesn't seem like the nicest person so I wouldn't consider her to be worth my time to worry over.