Yeah, I need help. I have kept a vow that I wouldn't have "crushes" on any boys. But I feel like i'm starting to break my vow. There's this kid that I know, and I'm attracted to him in a way. I find myself staring at him during class, and I know it's not good for me. Does anyone know how to get rid of my unwanted feelings?

um wow that is really hard promise.......i would go with what libertygirl said, your relationship with God is way more important. But if you are not a Christian(which i dont know if you are or not) I would reccomend deciding to avoid him as much as possible, i find it easier to get rid of these feelings if im not around him that much.......but then again sometimes i find myself thinking about him. So i really dont know what to say, i dont know what will work out for you....hope these helped a little :) . <(harkee33)>

You know what, I've done stuff like that before, and you know what? I threw that idea in the dust. I've tried not to like guys, so I don't get unfocused on more worthy things, and it never worked. Once. I finally chose to just accept that I like guys, because it's natural, and chose to ride each crush out. Granted, this is a pretty crappy idea, but that's all I can do. All I ever could do.