[u]why is it that every other question on here is about boy problems, from girls{ages10to15] that arn't even ready to add another half onto themselves. i mean why can't those girls just open their eyes and see that, a guy can't fix your problem, he can make you feel better, but if you can't really love who you are he can't either! We all need that somebody to make us feel better about areselves but first please try to be a whole person. the culture today feeds us lies that if your cool or just want to be excepted you have to have a guy, you have to be in a relationship! But you don't and if you [b]stop [/b] freakin out about the what guysthink about you, if they like you and the way they see you, and if you stop caring so much about what the world thinks about you. well the ladies only forum wouldn't be used as much for the same questions over and over again! "does this guy like me?" " what should i do about this guy?" "he broke up with me but now he wants to use me again, i mean get back together with me what should i do?" its like whats the point! your so young you two most likly wouldn't last more then a few months anyways! just to think about how much happier you'd be in a few years, if you worked on being s better,stronger Christian right now,! why fall into the same trap as most other girls! becasue its easy?[/u]

I think a lot of girls need to hear what you just said. I used to freak out over making myself look good to attract guys and wondering if guys liked me, but now I realize how ridiculous that was! All girls reading this: All of us crave to be loved by a man! It's a natural thing we all want! But we have plenty of time for that! God will reveal to you the right man when he comes along, so it's okay to be single and wait for him! In the mean time, why not try to strengthen your relationship with God? Just like we crave to have an intimate relationship with a guy, God longs to be close to us! He wants us to talk to Him and just be with Him! I have learned to put Him first in my life (before guys) and I am so much happier! God will never hurt you, never betray you, only LOVE you! And when you DO find the right guy, the one God has for you, that guy will only bring you closer to God! I pray for each and every girl that reads this that you will all find a God-loving, kind, caring, wonderful man designed just for you. I know if we juust wait and pray and give it over to God, he WILL provide! God bless you all :)

[b]AnointedMinstrel wrote:[/b] [quote]I think a lot of girls need to hear what you just said. I used to freak out over making myself look good to attract guys and wondering if guys liked me, but now I realize how ridiculous that was! All girls reading this: All of us crave to be loved by a man! It's a natural thing we all want! But we have plenty of time for that! God will reveal to you the right man when he comes along, so it's okay to be single and wait for him! In the mean time, why not try to strengthen your relationship with God? Just like we crave to have an intimate relationship with a guy, God longs to be close to us! He wants us to talk to Him and just be with Him! I have learned to put Him first in my life (before guys) and I am so much happier! God will never hurt you, never betray you, only LOVE you! And when you DO find the right guy, the one God has for you, that guy will only bring you closer to God! I pray for each and every girl that reads this that you will all find a God-loving, kind, caring, wonderful man designed just for you. I know if we juust wait and pray and give it over to God, he WILL provide! God bless you all :)[/quote] Amen sister!!! very well put!:cheer: