this guy likes me we'll call him Fred and I don't want a relationship right now no dating at all but I started to like this guy and I've been praying and asking God what I should do cause last time I got involved with a boy I ended up far away from God,and well my friend accidentally told me that Fred likes me and we've been talking as friends and all well Fred came up to me and told me that he rlly liked me and I asked him why and he said "your a strong christian and your different from all the other girls at this church you don't chase after guys like they do and your not fake!" and Fred is very sweet he's a strong christian and a very good friend of mine and well we were talking one day and he asked me how I felt about him and I wasn't gonna lie to him so I told him that I [u]kinda[/u] like him and I just want to be friends well it's gone from kinda liking him to liking him and I like him more than any guy I've ever liked but I don't want the same thing that happened last time to happen again,I don't want to go out with this guy get distracted and go away from God then break up and not talk for three months and then out of the blue he wants to be my best friend again IDK what to do help please!

1) Punctuation was invented for a reason, please use it. 2) I'm happy to hear that you've been praying about your feelings for 'Fred'. 3) How can someone accidentally say something like that? 4) It sounds like you already know in your heart what to do... If you feel like this guy will distract you from God then don't date him until after a lot more prayer you hear God telling you it's ok to date him. Also, if you do end up dating him don't go into it thinking you're just going to break up again; it brings doubt into your relationship which can mess things up for both of you. I'm proud at how mature you're being about this chica; keep on praying and being strong! I'll be praying for you too and remember, my inbox is always open :)

me her and our other friend angel were on the phone(angel is Fred's cousin)and she was like angel omigosh did you know your cousin likes trinity and then she was like crap and she told me she was sorry and she told Fred she was sorry. I don't want to think about breaking up if we do go out I'm the kinda person who thinks about every possible thing that could happen good or bad. thank you for praying for me and I will continue praying and if I need anything I'll message you.