So, I'm best friends with this guy for a long time. Then we decided we'd... court? Not date. That implies going out on dates. We didn't do that. We were just together, I guess you'd say. For four months. Then I began to ask myself "Why am I in a relationship? I'm not ready for this." and whatnot. I explained this to him, prayed about it, thought about it, got advice, and came to the conclusion that I needed to break it off. Especially since he was beginning to talk about a future and I knew I wasn't ready for that. So, today, I broke it off. And apparently that makes me a terrible person. Apparently that makes me heartless, means I've changed, makes me a different person, etc. He says he can't just pick up and move on. I told him that we're 15, it feels like that, but we always find a way to do it. I know, know, know this was the right thing for me to do. If it wasn't, I wouldn't have done it. I've explained. He still says I'm heartless, don't know what's right, don't consider his feelings, etc. I did. I considered him in it. What was better? Staying in a relationship that I was uncomfortable and unhappy in? Or giving him a chance to find someone who will treat him better? Ladies... I feel like crap. That's the best way I can say it. I wanted this to be easy for the both of us, be he's made it awful on me. I feel awful about it. I really do. I need support and prayer. :(

Darlin', of course I'll pray for you. Okay, advice. Let's see..... Well, first off, you have nothing to feel bad for. You did exactly what you should have done in a situation like that. It is NOT your fault, at all. Usually when we feel things like that, especially at your age, it means God's trying to tell us something. If you've explained to him your feelings and things, then you've done all you can do. There's nothing else you can do to make him feel better. And if he insists on making you feel like the Wicked Witch of the West, then chances are that he was not the right guy for you. In that case, he doesn't deserve someone better. You do. You are a Daughter of God, and no one has the right to make you feel less. Princesses don't get treated like dirt, and you are a Princess. Whether or not this helps, I'll say one last thing. I love you, and you are my sister. Nothin' can change that. :)

*hug* That's exactly what I needed. EXACTLY. I love you too, Kat. I'm glad I have someone I can depend on like you.

*hug* That's what I'm here for.

He was fifteen also.

This reminds me of a song... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FafLnokzeNo :)

Firstly, I'm praying for you too, hon. Secondly, Kat and CW are right. You are one of God's Princesses and you do not deserve to be dragged through the dirt like this. You deserve much better than him and God is certainly preparing a man for you that will treat you as a Princess and one of God's precious jewels. I know how you feel. When I broke up with Brian, he put me through the same thing. He didn't say I was heartless but he did tell me what this guy told you. And this was after I tried to stay friends with him. That's when I knew that it was time to break it off completely. No man has the right to drag you through the dirt and make you feel like that. I'm here for you sweetie. *hugs* Inbox is open if you want to talk about this more.

*hugs* You know... The thing is, he DID treat me like a princess... until this happened. And now I just feel bad. =/ But you ladies are right. Thanks for everything.