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Well, all girls have different opinions on what is good in a guy, but I can tell you what I would look for! What I would look for in guy for sure would be that he is a Christian who is strong in his faith and takes his faith seriously, not just something that is just active on Sunday mornings during church or during the week at Youth Group. I also look for guys that don't do anything illegal like drink underage, do drugs, beat people to a pulp in fights, etc. I also look for the guy to treat girls with chivalry (opening the doors for them and stuff like that) and not to physically or emotional abuse them in any way or try to force the girl to have sex with them before marraige. I also look for a guy who will be loyal and not cheat on me, a guy I can share my feelings with and who will share theirs back (to a certain extent anyways), a guy who is funny (in clean ways), etc. Personally, I tend to get attracted to guys who have dark hair and dark eyes a lot, but in the long run that does not matter to me as long as the guy fits the criteria above and I'm attracted to the guy. Does that answer your question? Message me if it doesn't. horsechic1990 P.S. I also like the guy to have at least some similar interests as I do, like maybe similar tastes in music and stuff (I don't know if all girls look for that or not though).

the number one thing i look for in a guy is this --- he has to love God more than he loves me other than that, i want a guy to be my best friend and bring out the best in me, helping me to live my life to the fullest for Jesus:)

[b]hexisxmyxrefuge wrote:[/b] [quote]the number one thing i look for in a guy is this --- he has to love God more than he loves me other than that, i want a guy to be my best friend and bring out the best in me, helping me to live my life to the fullest for Jesus:)[/quote] whoa didnt we just talk about this lol?

[b]Smitty wrote:[/b] [quote][b]hexisxmyxrefuge wrote:[/b] [quote]the number one thing i look for in a guy is this --- he has to love God more than he loves me other than that, i want a guy to be my best friend and bring out the best in me, helping me to live my life to the fullest for Jesus:)[/quote] whoa didnt we just talk about this lol?[/quote] haha... actually that's what i was thinking when i answered this forum!:P

I soooo agree with hexisxmyxrefuge..... i want a guy who makes me crack up no matter how sad i am....it may sound hard but i'm a very sencitave easy laugher so just be silly and i'll laugh lol:laugh:

Well Looks, Grades, Sweettness. You have to be really sweet and not annoying. No girl likes it when you bother her everyday. But she wants you to talk to her. Little things help like flowers for no reason and poems. She wants you to be sensitive and there for her. Someone a girl can talk to about anything. Funny. A girl loves to laugh.

I look for a Christian who walks the walk and doesn't just say he's a Christian, he actually has to follow God to the best of his abilities. My current boyfriend is like this. I also have learned the hard way in the past that communication is key. [i][u]So in a guy i want:[/u][/i] [b]~A Fellow believer who loves God.[/b] ~A friend, someone i can talk to openly about anything and who is willing to listen to me. ~A guy who has goals and is trying to reach them, not someone who just sits at home all the time. Grades and education fall in this category and are important to me. ~Someone who values me, and treats me with respect. For example he won't push me into anything i don't want and he respects my boundaries. ~Someone who I can put my trust in completely, i know he won't lie to me for example. ~Who likes me just as i am and doesn't want me to change. And who i can be completely comfortable with. For example i don't want to feel like i have to look nice for him to see me. My ex i used to dress to keep his attention, now i'm comfortable with my current bf for him to see me without makeup. It took me a while but i'm starting to believe him when he says i'm beautiful as i am without the makeup. I dont' feel like i have to dress up, instead i choose to dress up. :) ~Who has a good relationship with his family. ~Who can make me smile and laugh when i'm sad or having a bad day, and vice versa because i want to make him as happy as possible. :P ~Someone who i don't fight with, disagreements are ok as long as we can both talk about it and openly discuss problems rather than hold them inside and be angry. Agreeing to disagree is ok. :) ~I don't care if anyone else does but i at least have to find him attractive. :laugh: ~And my parents have to like him and approve of him. Hope this helps they are just kind of generalizations.

[b]hexisxmyxrefuge wrote:[/b] [quote]the number one thing i look for in a guy is this --- he has to love God more than he loves me other than that, i want a guy to be my best friend and bring out the best in me, helping me to live my life to the fullest for Jesus:)[/quote] Exactly, also, he has to be a gentleman around me and other people. And has to put up with most of my quirks.