I have been wondering this for a while, but I wanted to ask both guys and girls this. So, here's the question: What is your opinion on asking people out? Do you think that the guy should ask the girl out? Or should the girl ask the guy out? Does it matter who asks who out? I was wondering 'cause a lot of girls I know (including myself) are too afraid to ask their crush out or even to talk to them, and they would prefer if the guy asked them out. However, I've heard that some guys like it when girls ask them out, and some don't. I am confused on the matter and would like your input on it! Thanks!

I dont think it should matter personally, im too shy just like most girls would be

Thanks DHFan! So, do you think that girls in general should take more risks in asking guys out or are girls doing an ok job at it now?

Well as far as whether or not they should take more risks, that depends on the girl. However, I think that guys should ask girls out and not the other way around. I'm not saying it's wrong for a girl to do this, but it is less desirable.

[b]BrotherReed wrote:[/b] [quote]Well as far as whether or not they should take more risks, that depends on the girl. However, I think that guys should ask girls out and not the other way around. I'm not saying it's wrong for a girl to do this, but it is less desirable.[/quote] Why do you think it is less desirable and why do you think that? I for one do not have the guts to ask a guy out, but I am wondering if any guys that know me like me and are too shy to ask me out or not. I am confused on what to do.

[b]horsechic1990 wrote:[/b] [quote]Thanks DHFan! So, do you think that girls in general should take more risks in asking guys out or are girls doing an ok job at it now?[/quote] personally, ive never really seen a girl ask a guy out.... i think it depends on the person really

Ok, thanks!

to me it dose'nt really matter.me and my boyfriend have been going out for lil more then 4 mounths now!!!!!!!!!!lol sry. and i was the one who ask't him out and he sed it was cute but. but then other guys sed that they dont like it. i think that you should find out if they like it or not and if they do ask them. if they dont then find someone to kinda spered it around so that he knows hope that helps ttyl ;) :laugh:

[b]Fadedwings wrote:[/b] [quote]to me it dose'nt really matter.me and my boyfriend have been going out for lil more then 4 mounths now!!!!!!!!!!lol sry. and i was the one who ask't him out and he sed it was cute but. but then other guys sed that they dont like it. i think that you should find out if they like it or not and if they do ask them. if they dont then find someone to kinda spered it around so that he knows hope that helps ttyl ;) :laugh:[/quote] That does help me a lot! Thanks for the tips!